Learning how to give oral can make the difference between being a boring, forgettable lover …or a memorable, think-about-her-and-it-turns-me-on type of lover.
And if you’re anything like me, you want to WOW your partner in the sack and practically leave them speechless with satisfaction!
Unfortunately most women along the way either don’t realize how crazy guys go for great oral, or are too shy to ask how to give one, and neglect a very vital skill in ones sexual arsenal …the blow job.
So today I want to offer a few quick tips for those of you who give your man something he’s been hoping for his whole life.
A great blow job consists of 3 important things…
1. Unpredictable behavior
2. Occasional eye contact
3. Passion!
The predictable is boring. It just is. You know what’s coming next, and there are no surprises along the way.
If you think there is only one movement to perform while giving a blow job then you need to read this right now. But don’t do any ONE thing for too long. Switch it up, keep him guessing. Every time will be different, which means every time will be exciting. Another important thing in this category would be the position in which you service him. Don’t always lay him down in bed and go between his legs, switch it up and do it in a chair or even standing up once and awhile. Make his day!
Eye-contact is one of the most skipped things women tend to avoid when giving a dead-sexy blow job.
Guys don’t expect to hold a stare or anything, but locking eyes for a split second every now and then reminds him he’d better enjoy this while it lasts.
Which leads right in to, passion…
If you give a passionate blow job and really sell yourself and that you LOVE satisfying your man, he will go hog-wild, I guarantee it. There is NOTHING sexier than a woman who loves what she’s doing, and if you have that attitude while making your mans day, he’s going to feel like a million bucks.
Let me explain what most women do when giving a blow job, then hopefully you can see how the above tips alone will erupt your sex life and bring out a whole new personality in your man…
Woman turns off the lights… (First wrong move! Gives want, NEED to see what’s going on)
Couple routinely undresses (as it’s Saturday night, most couples have a predictable sex schedule) and climbs under the sheets.
After a few minutes of gentle kissing and caressing the woman starts lowering her kisses down his chin, chest, and eventually makes her way to his package.
Here she holds it loosely (a good grip is great!) and slowly does what she thinks feels good.
MEANWHILE the guy is trying to think sexy thoughts so he can stay hard. It feels ok, but after a few minutes he changes the pace into sex because that blow job wasn’t going ANYWHERE. In what should only take 2-3 minutes, she managed to completely almost kill the mood.
Don’t let the above describe your sex life! Do something about it.
Hopefully you’ve enjoyed my tips above and apply them to your sex life. And if you really want to learn how to give the BEST oral, I’ve created an entire step-by-step guide that reveals EVERYTHING a guy is desperate for. Check it out here.
That’s it for today, now go have some fun!
And as always, stay sexy.
Evan Michaels
evan@dirtytalktips.com
