…love compliments.

Men are often stoic creatures. Living selflessly for our wives and girlfriends, making sure they get the best treatment possible in life (no? You don’t think so? .

But just because we give give give, doesn’t mean we don’t like to receive either.

If you find a guy lucky enough for you to want to keep …tell him what you like about him and why.

Recognition is the key to the  long term success of relationships, life, work ….basically you name it!

Look at it job-wise …if your boss stops to tell you you’ve done a great job and you are invaluable to the company, it changes the way you think about your job. You could make less then others but still feel grateful because you have such a good boss and place to work.

A relationship is the same.

The longer you are in a relationship (or longer you are at a job), the easier it becomes to dwell on petty things and make a big deal about nothing.  I encourage you to recognize the good now and then, and voice it. Your bond will strengthen tenfold.

Don’t overuse compliments though …If you compliment your guy too much, they will be weak and sound meaningless. But whether it’s physical or mental, noticing the small things and voicing them can go a long way.

Keep those relationships sizzling …

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

Will he always cheat?

Will he always smoke?

These are common questions women ask themselves when trying to decide whether or not they want to commit to their men.

You wanted to know my opinion on the topic, so watch my video below to find out!

One big thing I see and remember from doing a lot of dating, is women (and men too) talking too much. Whether it’s out of nervousness or what, it can be very frustrating when you’re trying to get to know someone…so here’s a video about what to do about it:

Since so many women ask me whether or not guys care about what they look like naked, I made a video sharing how guys feel about it…check it out below:

Many people get well into their relationships and still have NO idea what turns on their partner. Which means it’s hard to have a really exciting sex life when you’re guessing or have no idea what to do/say.

Communication is crucial to the longevity of any relationship. And one of the most fun things you can do is ask your partner what turns them on. This can be an extremely exciting conversation as well.

Instead of fretting about what your partner wants are, and randomly trying things you THINK he’ll like. Ask him!

But do it in a fun way. Maybe after a nice meal, get comfy on the couch. Your body language should be playful and sexy, perhaps a little lip biting, and eyebrow raise to show him you’re serious and want to know for HIS benefit.

Go find out what he loves, then come back and learn how to drive him WILD dirty talking with that info.

Evan Michaels

You always hear men saying things like ‘The thing I like most on a woman is nice breasts’ or other guys will say ‘I’m more of an ass kind of guy’.

I figured there’s GOT to be a common feature about women that men love….so I thought it would be interesting to see what men pick.

I put together a fun little survey, surveying 100 men to see what feature of a woman is the most important to men. And here are some of the answers I got:

“I love a sexy pair of legs on a girl. A women with nice legs is such a turn on”

-Jeremy OH

“A woman with a nice chest always gets my attention first…I’m not going to lie, I’m a boobs guy”

-Tommy D. NY

“This might sound a little weird, but I love womens necks. It’s such a soft and sexy area.”

-Charlie AZ

Out of the 100 men who I surveyed via email (so they would be as honest as possible since they could remain anonymous), here is how the results came in:

3% Love feet
3% Love necks
3% Love long hair
15% Love nice legs
20% Love a nice bum
21% Love nice breasts

And the winner by a landslide is:

%35 a woman’s face

There you have it! The most important thing for most men, is a woman’s face.

Remember that this test is purely superficial and does not include more important things such as personality, sense of humor, etc.

Thanks to KarenJJX for the survey suggestion. If there’s anything else you want to learn about men. Keep the ideas coming!

Best regards,

Evan Michaels
Founder of Dirtytalktips.com

This has to be one of the most common questions that I receive at Dirty Talk tips.

Guys in general:

• Don’t like to talk about mushy stuff
• Are embarrassed to talk about anything sexual related, ie: fantasys
• Have a hard time opening up

So it’s pretty hard for you to get into his head, and be able to know what turns him on.

They just want you to know these things.

So, I’m going to give you some tips that will help you unlock the wild side in your boyfriend, and have him feel something NO one else has ever brought out in him.

Tip #1 – Make him feel unique.

Guys want to be memorable. Tell him things about himself that turn you on in with his friends…Something that will catch him off guard. Something like:

"You hotter/sexier then ALL of your friends"

Even if it’s not true, it’s going to make him feel like a stud.

Alternately you can say:

"You are more attractive to me than ANY of your friends"

Notice how I said ‘to me’, so you don’t necessarily have to say he’s the hottest guy, but it will sound like it. And it will make him be more attracted to you because he’ll know you are attracted to him…Which will turn him on, guaranteed!

Tip #2 – Show him a bad side that only he knows about.

Guys on average have a higher sex drive then woman. But even though they may want it more then you, it’s important that you catch him off guard sometimes too. It will blow his mind.

So you both get off of work and meet up at his house, and the FIRST thing you say is something like:

"I got horny thinking about you this morning at work…and it hasn’t stopped since" <- that followed with a sexy staredown will wow him.

It shows you think about him, fantasize about him, and get turned on by him. All things that will turn him on big time.

Tip #3 – Compliment his characteristics.

Whether he’s thin, fat, bald, hairy, or sexy as heck. Let him know you like it and it turns you on.

Let’s turn the tables for second. What’s something about yourself you aren’t confident in?

Let’s just say it’s your lips.

If, without even knowing, he says to you after a kiss, while looking you in the eyes: "I love kissing you. Your have the best lips I have ever kissed. EVER".

How would that make you feel?

So take something of his, and compliment it.

If you want to add some serious points, compliment his … you know. Even if it isn’t anything special, let him to that to you it’s special to YOU and you wouldn’t trade it for the world. It will make him feel incredible, and he’ll take it out on you!

So there you have it, a few little tips that can make a big impact on a guy.

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Good luck!

Evan Michaels

p.s If you try these tips and have some great success stories, or have any questions. Please send them to Evan@DirtyTalkTips.com

So what DO men want in a girlfriend?

Sex all the time?

For us to be fed chips while we play video games?

For there to be a hot meal on the table when we get home?

Well. While those things could score you some mega points, they are definitely not a make or break asset most guys look for.

We want a girl who we can trust around our buddies. A girl who looks good in jeans, and can handle a good conversation. A girl who we can take to a hockey or football game and, even if she doesn’t understand, has a fun time and asks us questions that make us FEEL smart or that we know the sport well. Totally strokes our ego…

A girl that is a good listener, or at least takes (or fakes:) interest in our hobbies. Do you want to hear about the UFC or motorcycles all day? No. But sometimes we need to talk about it for just a couple of minutes.

Plus it wouldn’t hurt if she gets along with the family and can hang out with mom. That’s usually the telltale sign of a keeper. The mom test.

While every guy is different, their needs are pretty much the same:

-Eat
-Sleep
-Sex

So if none of the stuff I mentioned earlier works for you, try these three things and I’m sure he’ll love you just fine.

That’s what men want in a girlfriend.

Evan

So you want to become the best girlfriend/wife ever.

You’ve already read my dirty talk examples, so your life in the bedroom has started to spice up, now you want to continue down the path of having an amazing relationship.

Most guys like to play hockey, football, pool, SOMETHING, and if you’re in a relationship where he does do one of those things. GO WATCH HIM!

There is nothing better then having a girlfriend who is a fan of yours.

Even if you don’t like hockey, basketball, soccer, whatever …make that sacrifice. It will mean so much to him.

It shows him that you want to take time out of your day to support him in the things he is passionate about.

Then, you can say things like ‘wow, you sure looked sexy out there!’, or ‘you’re the sexiest guy on your team!’ and it will really pump his ego, scoring you some points, and making him go nuts for you.

Give it a try!

Evan Michaels
www.DirtyTalkTips.com