If you want to learn how to have hot sex,  you must:

• be brave
• be adventurous
• be spontaneous

Hot sex has a lot to do with attraction, imagination, and energy…

It should NOT be intimate. It should not be slow and lovey dovey. It’s about passion, pleasure, and sweat

Hot sex is all about action and no delay. The last thing you want to do is hesitate or hum and haw over what to do next.

Power and knowing what you want is sexy. Take charge, and commit. Don’t over-think and do what feels good.

Asides from spontaneity, there’s two things I highly recommend for red-hot sex every time:

1. Dirty Talk

2. Role-Playing

Dirty talk is the difference between boring, predictable sex …and satisfy your partner like never before sex. It makes for exciting, memorable sex sessions over and over again. And the more you do it, the better you get. I wrote amazing products covering dirty talk in great detail because it has such a HUGE impact on your sex life. So if you haven’t checked them out already, you’re missing out!

Role-Playing always makes for hot-sex. The best part about it, is because you’re “acting”, you’re basically free to say whatever you want without feeling guilty. If you’re a generally shy person, you get to act like someone else which might help bring you out of your shell. It gives you so many scenarios to use dirty talk in, it ties in nicely together.

If you want to learn how to have hot sex every time, master these two things, and you will be bragging about your sex life every chance you get.

For more information on the extremely popular Dirty Talk Handbooks click the links below:

How to talk dirty to men

How to talk dirty to women

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

Long past are the days when a woman would wait around for Mr. Right to ask her out so they can live together happily ever after.

The reality is, if women don’t learn how to get attention from the types of men they are interested in, it is likely they will get hit on by the wrong kind of guys (if any), and will have a hard time finding a satisfying long-term relationship.

My name is Evan Michaels, and I have helped tens of thousands of women peek into the minds of men for a backstage pass into what they are thinking. Many women email me asking for advice on how to attract men, so today I want to give some quick advice as to how to become irresistible to men.

If you want to meet nice guys who aren’t looking for a one night stand…

Be fun, be simple.

Most guys hate drama. All we want is to be around someone fun, who doesn’t worry about the little things.

Many women worry too much. Worry about what the guy will think, and create all of these ‘what if’ scenarios in her brain that cause doubt and fear.

Relax!

If you are with a friend, shoot some pool, play some darts, or just talk.

But whatever you are doing, have a good time, and be in a good mood.

If you make eye contact with the guy you are interested in, flash him a nice inviting smile, and slowly drag your eyes back to what you were doing, hinting you want him to come over.

Remember, guys do NOT want to hit on women that look stuck up or are intimidating. So don’t act too cool for school.

A really fun ice-breaker once he does approach, is instantly get the conversation going with a game. Quickly introduce yourself once he has, and say ‘so my friend and I are trying to guess the jobs of people just by looking at them. I’m convinced that that girl works at the zoo. He is a masseuse… what do you think he does’ while pointing to a stranger, and see what he says back.

This starts off the conversation in a great way that takes the pressure off of initial conversation, and the BEST part is about it …if there are any awkward moments in the conversation, you can always go back to it ‘so what about that guy, what do you think he does?’

You don’t have to use the job scenario, you can do whatever you want. But this little game does a number of things.

First, it is a screening process for you. Depending on the little game you play, if his answers aren’t what you hoped they were and you can instantly tell he’s not the kind of guy you are interested in, you can quietly excuse yourself and get back to your friend.

But second, it’s fun. Instantly you have been much more exciting than whatever else that guy has been doing, and he’s going to want to be around you, let alone probably offer to buy you a drink. Remember, it takes guts for guys to approach women.

So if you can make it easy for the kind of guys you want to hit on you,  that attitude is going to make you irresistible to men!

Hopefully you enjoyed my tip on how to attract men. For an incredible in depth guide packed full of great tips like this, be sure to check out my new web site: www.secretstoattractingmen.com.

Give it a try! Go and have some fun tonight.

Evan Michaels

As you get better at talking dirty, the more fun it is.

However if you are new to dirty talk, you probably have a tough time saying certain things to your partner. Especially if you haven’t been very vocal in the past.

But what better time to begin than right now!?

Like anything, it takes practice to deliver irresistible dirty talk. Who cares if you are shy at first, because trust me, it’s extremely fun and worth learning.

So today’s challenge is …I want you to take 1 dirty talk line in your repertoire, and make it even dirtier. And I want you to say it to your lover tonight.

Here are some examples:

Women

If you were going to initiate you might normally say “I want you so bad”

But I want you to try something along the lines of this instead “I want your cock inside me so bad”

As you can imagine, this could be a lot dirtier still, however you need to start off small and work your way up.

Men

Instead of saying “You are so tight” or “You are so hot baby”

Try things like “You pussy feels amazing!” or “God dam you’re sexy”

As you practice saying these things your will begin to start thinking of more and more ways to satisfy your lover with custom dirty talk.

If you just search the internet for different dirty talk examples and never learn how to actually talk dirty, when you run out of things and your lover wants more you are going to be extremely embarrassed.

So take your time, and practice practice practice. For what to say next, and everything you EVER need to know about dirty talk, check out our dirty talk courses here.

That’s it for today. Go have some fun!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels & Jess Summers

So the other day I was having a conversation with some female friends, and one woman asked “Why do guys always drool over gymnasts?”

I tried to conceal an embarrassing smile, because I knew the answer, but didn’t immediately understand how to explain my response.

“The thing is…” I explained “flexibility adds a unique dynamic in the bedroom. It allows guys to try more positions, and adds a lot of unique angles. PLUS, when we go down on a woman, there is nothing worse then being squished between two legs, cutting off our hearing *insert smile here*, so it’s very hot because we have lots of space, and can bend you to what looks great for us, and feels great for you”

This seemed to answer her question, but I wanted to address this topic a little more… because would it be weird to work on your flexibility to enhance your sex life???

No! That’s is awesome.

Remember, it takes hard work and practice to become an amazing lover. You have to learn, and you have to broaden your horizons. This blog post is just a simple reminder that yes, flexibility is very sexy to us men, and if it’s something you worked on, I can guarantee your sex life would get hotter and hotter!

Lastly, I do not think women should have to be the only ones working on things, but if you want to literally blow his mind, practice your splits!

Stay sexy.

If you’re looking for some fun things to do with your boyfriend, here are a few ideas that will be fun for both of you:

• Create fun nicknames for each other
• Go smell colognes/perfumes at a department store
• Try on clothes you would never buy. Pick out outfits for each other
• Try our a new restaurant
• Go to the fair
• Play cards together (crib / poker …maybe strip? :p)
• Take a course together (scuba / dance / cooking)
• Take a hike
• Go on a picnic
• Workout together
• Do yoga
• Write a song / story together
• Pick out outfits for one another from their own closet
• Role play together in public. Pretend you’re from another country
• Get drunk together
• Give each other haircuts / do each others hair
• Rent bikes and ride them around town
• Volunteer together
• Read the same book and talk about it
• Each pick out a movie you think the other person would like and watch it
• Buy junk food and binge together
• Go watch a local sporting event. High school football match…
• Pick out outfits for next Halloween
• Go downtown for coffee and people watch. Guess what random people do for a living
• Play a board-game together (scrabble, monopoly, operation…)
• Do some mad-libs and make them dirty

That should be a nice list to get your started. But if you have any great suggestions for fun things to do with your boyfriend, please write them below in the comments section.

Knowing what the opposite sex wants is what this website (and our products) is ALL about.

So today’s post is focusing on some of the male insecurities women need to be aware of.

There are 5 major hot topics that will instantly change the mood. So from here on out, talk about them at your own discretion!

1. Don’t talk badly about his member

Everyone wishes they had more money. Just like every guy wishes he was bigger, lasted longer, etc.

Even jokingly if you comment or hint you aren’t satisfied, or that he could be bigger, you are walking on thin ice! Be aware that even if he is above average, he still feels threatened by the freak of natures he sees on the internet.

2. Don’t laugh that you make more money

If you are in a heated argument, and you REALLY want to push his buttons, then you can rub this in his face…

But unless you want him to resent you and will bad things to happen to you, I encourage you not to point out that you make more money then he does …EVER!

Guys still feel like we need to take care of and protect our women (even though it’s usually the other way around), and he will feel less of a man if you continually point this out. Try and avoid it.

3. Don’t talk poorly about his momma

The one stable women in a guys life….

And sure while a guys mother is usually opinionated, always right, and always in her domain …if you care about your guy, then you will have to agree with and do things for her that really grind your gears.

Even when guys don’t agree with his momma, he always remembers the special meals and sage advice she has given him, so take one for the team and especially don’t vent to HIM about his ma.

4. Don’t hit on or talk highly of his close buddies or family

If you are attracted to his best friend, or his younger brother is Taylor Lautner, keep it to yourself and act like your guy is the most attractive man on the planet to you!

Guys can be very insecure, and if you often talk about someone else other then him, and your eyes get lost at the thought, he will die a little inside.

Share it with the girls, not him!

5. Don’t mention his hair loss

Hair-loss makes a man feel like his looks are withering away, EVEN if that’s not the case. While at the end of the day, it’s all about confidence, and some guys can rock the cueball. This is most guys worse nightmare.

Not to mention stress and talking about it doesn’t help. This is a very sensitive topic for men, so if you want to be on his good side, avoid it like the plague.

Thanks for reading today’s article. For more on how to seduce men <— check out my brand new site!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

My oh my, there is nothing sexier then a woman knows exactly how to seduce a man with words!

The thing is, a mans imagination is more powerful then EVERYTHING. His sight, his sense of smell… what I’m saying is, IF you know how to make his imagination go CRAZY, it is more powerful then being attractive, etc…

The secret to seducing a man with words is two-fold:
1. Get his imagination spinning

2. Tease him

First you need to set the mood. You need to TELL him what is going to happen… “I am going to have my way with you, and you are going to sit there saying nothing and love it while I (insert sexy line here)”.

He doesn’t know what is going to happen, and the possibilities are driving him nuts!!!

Now his mind is whirling, you need to play with him a bit. Don’t commit to anything just yet. Touch, tickle, play… ask him if he’d like this (then do it) OR that (then do it).

The key is in taking action. You have to be bold, and take a risk by saying exactly what you want to happen.

Every man is different, so it will be up to you to customize it, but if you really work on driving his imagination wild, I guarantee your words will be more powerful then anything else.

Give it a shot!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

IF you think you know exactly what men want sexually, then you NEED to read this article.

Sure men aren’t the most complicated creatures on the planet… we like meat, sports, gambling, fighting (not all of course, but most), SEX.

But just because we love sex (which is obvious) doesn’t mean that it is an easy itch to scratch, there is more to it then that.

Believe it or not men are surprisingly sensitive when it comes to sharing what they want sexually with women.

Here is what I mean…

Most guys are so grateful to get sex, they are AFRAID to tell you what they want and how they want it. Yep, it’s true.

So I’m here to tell YOU exactly what men want sexually!

First of all, guys are dominant creatures. We like to feel manly, and we like to feel strong. But most importantly, we like to feel we are doing a good job.

Men want to think they are the best most exciting partner you have ever had!!! I know it sounds stupid, but we want to feel unique  and memorable somehow… I didn’t say we are the smartest creatures!

We want to be able to throw you down, have our way (while you are impressed with our dominance) while you dirty talk, moan, and scream until a big finish. Finished off with a little bit of pillow talk talking about how amazing it was.

Sounds silly right?

EVERY single time you get together doesn’t have to be like this, but if you allow him to control the situation once and awhile, you will notice his eyes wandering less, and he will be talking about you to his work buddies a LOT more.

On top of this comes the topic of foreplay.,,

Do guys like foreplay?

Definitely!

Foreplay doesn’t always have to lead to sex either… I know that sounds strange for some of you, but a sex session can wholly be replaced by oral or other methods (use your imagination).

Guys LOVE the idea of having a quick session (sex/oral/etc.) in places out of the norm too: ie, the car, shower, beach, etc…

It doesn’t have to be a long marathon, but if you show some spontaneity and a sense of adventure you will give him more then what he wants sexually.

Hope that gives you a little more insight to the male psyche.

Until next time…

Evan Michaels

Hi – I just wanted to write and say thank you!!  My husband and I are away from each other.  I am going to school to get my doctorate in Florida and he is in Pennsylvania.  We have a great marriage and love each other so much.  But it has been hard being away from each other.

I get nervous that he will find someone else.  He has always hinted that he wants to talk dirty but I never much helped him out with that.  I really want to make him happy so I decided to search for help on line. I was so worried that I would get all of these perverted pop ups on my computer.  Instead, I found your site and your advice.

I am so happy.  He loves it.  When we have our monthly visit with each other, it is so hot. I can’t thank you enough for writing your book and helping me out.  I think the thing that helped me out the most was that you called it “sexy talk”.  Putting it into those terms in my head, helped me to not be embarrassed to say things.  Also, just having a couple of phrases to have up my sleave helped me to put me at ease.  I also enjoyed the part about confidence.  I used to be shy about showing myself to him but now I am more confident and he loves it.

Thank you!!  Best wishes to you.

If you want to become more attractive to men, you’re going to have to develop some new habits. The following video gives you some insight in to how to become irresistible to men.