Long past are the days when a woman would wait around for Mr. Right to ask her out so they can live together happily ever after.

The reality is, if women don’t learn how to get attention from the types of men they are interested in, it is likely they will get hit on by the wrong kind of guys (if any), and will have a hard time finding a satisfying long-term relationship.

My name is Evan Michaels, and I have helped tens of thousands of women peek into the minds of men for a backstage pass into what they are thinking. Many women email me asking for advice on how to attract men, so today I want to give some quick advice as to how to become irresistible to men.

If you want to meet nice guys who aren’t looking for a one night stand…

Be fun, be simple.

Most guys hate drama. All we want is to be around someone fun, who doesn’t worry about the little things.

Many women worry too much. Worry about what the guy will think, and create all of these ‘what if’ scenarios in her brain that cause doubt and fear.

Relax!

If you are with a friend, shoot some pool, play some darts, or just talk.

But whatever you are doing, have a good time, and be in a good mood.

If you make eye contact with the guy you are interested in, flash him a nice inviting smile, and slowly drag your eyes back to what you were doing, hinting you want him to come over.

Remember, guys do NOT want to hit on women that look stuck up or are intimidating. So don’t act too cool for school.

A really fun ice-breaker once he does approach, is instantly get the conversation going with a game. Quickly introduce yourself once he has, and say ‘so my friend and I are trying to guess the jobs of people just by looking at them. I’m convinced that that girl works at the zoo. He is a masseuse… what do you think he does’ while pointing to a stranger, and see what he says back.

This starts off the conversation in a great way that takes the pressure off of initial conversation, and the BEST part is about it …if there are any awkward moments in the conversation, you can always go back to it ‘so what about that guy, what do you think he does?’

You don’t have to use the job scenario, you can do whatever you want. But this little game does a number of things.

First, it is a screening process for you. Depending on the little game you play, if his answers aren’t what you hoped they were and you can instantly tell he’s not the kind of guy you are interested in, you can quietly excuse yourself and get back to your friend.

But second, it’s fun. Instantly you have been much more exciting than whatever else that guy has been doing, and he’s going to want to be around you, let alone probably offer to buy you a drink. Remember, it takes guts for guys to approach women.

So if you can make it easy for the kind of guys you want to hit on you,  that attitude is going to make you irresistible to men!

Hopefully you enjoyed my tip on how to attract men. For an incredible in depth guide packed full of great tips like this, be sure to check out my new web site: www.secretstoattractingmen.com.

Give it a try! Go and have some fun tonight.

Evan Michaels

So the other day I was having a conversation with some female friends, and one woman asked “Why do guys always drool over gymnasts?”

I tried to conceal an embarrassing smile, because I knew the answer, but didn’t immediately understand how to explain my response.

“The thing is…” I explained “flexibility adds a unique dynamic in the bedroom. It allows guys to try more positions, and adds a lot of unique angles. PLUS, when we go down on a woman, there is nothing worse then being squished between two legs, cutting off our hearing *insert smile here*, so it’s very hot because we have lots of space, and can bend you to what looks great for us, and feels great for you”

This seemed to answer her question, but I wanted to address this topic a little more… because would it be weird to work on your flexibility to enhance your sex life???

No! That’s is awesome.

Remember, it takes hard work and practice to become an amazing lover. You have to learn, and you have to broaden your horizons. This blog post is just a simple reminder that yes, flexibility is very sexy to us men, and if it’s something you worked on, I can guarantee your sex life would get hotter and hotter!

Lastly, I do not think women should have to be the only ones working on things, but if you want to literally blow his mind, practice your splits!

Stay sexy.

Hi – I just wanted to write and say thank you!!  My husband and I are away from each other.  I am going to school to get my doctorate in Florida and he is in Pennsylvania.  We have a great marriage and love each other so much.  But it has been hard being away from each other.

I get nervous that he will find someone else.  He has always hinted that he wants to talk dirty but I never much helped him out with that.  I really want to make him happy so I decided to search for help on line. I was so worried that I would get all of these perverted pop ups on my computer.  Instead, I found your site and your advice.

I am so happy.  He loves it.  When we have our monthly visit with each other, it is so hot. I can’t thank you enough for writing your book and helping me out.  I think the thing that helped me out the most was that you called it “sexy talk”.  Putting it into those terms in my head, helped me to not be embarrassed to say things.  Also, just having a couple of phrases to have up my sleave helped me to put me at ease.  I also enjoyed the part about confidence.  I used to be shy about showing myself to him but now I am more confident and he loves it.

Thank you!!  Best wishes to you.

If you want to become more attractive to men, you’re going to have to develop some new habits. The following video gives you some insight in to how to become irresistible to men.

If you’re shy, or just don’t know how to get a guys attention here’s a video I put together just for you, explaining practical ways to get a guys attention.