ur hot, can u show me ur tits?

nice legs, what time do they open?

can I buy you a drink, or do you just want the money?

It takes a little planning to learn how to talk dirty without being sleazy …and while the above examples of dirty talk messages / pick up lines are amusing, they will most likely make the recipient feel cheap.

The secret behind great dirty talk, is timing.

With the right timing you can crack the hardest of shells.

In order to work on your timing, you need to have a good understanding about what is going on in the minds of the recipient.

Are you dating? A new couple? Married and want to introduce a little spicy talk? Each of these scenarios will require a different approach.

For example, if you are dating and you want to have some fun texting, msging, or on the phone, you need to be clever …original. You want to be sexy without being over-bearing. At this stage in the relationship, you want to show your partner that you are fun, but, at the same time you are ready to pull the trigger and be intimate. You don’t want to get stuck in that ‘they make me laugh and that’s it’ stage.

If you are married, you might want to start things off a little slower. If you start throwing around level 5 dirty talk, your partner might wonder where you learned that and be suspicious (we’ve literally had people say this has happened!). So start easy and see how they respond. If they like it, keep cranking up the heat.

It’s all about finding out your lovers comfort level.

In the beginning, ask probing questions. It might not be jumping into the deep end right away, but it could save you from a possibly awkward situation if you start sounding sleazy too quickly.

While at the end of the dirty, talking dirty is for your amusement. Aim to please and satisfy the other person. Come across as unselfish as possible. Learn how to talk dirty without being sleazy, the reward will be worth it.

Thanks for tuning in, & stay sexy!

Jess Summers

Knowing what the opposite sex wants is what this website (and our products) is ALL about.

So today’s post is focusing on some of the male insecurities women need to be aware of.

There are 5 major hot topics that will instantly change the mood. So from here on out, talk about them at your own discretion!

1. Don’t talk badly about his member

Everyone wishes they had more money. Just like every guy wishes he was bigger, lasted longer, etc.

Even jokingly if you comment or hint you aren’t satisfied, or that he could be bigger, you are walking on thin ice! Be aware that even if he is above average, he still feels threatened by the freak of natures he sees on the internet.

2. Don’t laugh that you make more money

If you are in a heated argument, and you REALLY want to push his buttons, then you can rub this in his face…

But unless you want him to resent you and will bad things to happen to you, I encourage you not to point out that you make more money then he does …EVER!

Guys still feel like we need to take care of and protect our women (even though it’s usually the other way around), and he will feel less of a man if you continually point this out. Try and avoid it.

3. Don’t talk poorly about his momma

The one stable women in a guys life….

And sure while a guys mother is usually opinionated, always right, and always in her domain …if you care about your guy, then you will have to agree with and do things for her that really grind your gears.

Even when guys don’t agree with his momma, he always remembers the special meals and sage advice she has given him, so take one for the team and especially don’t vent to HIM about his ma.

4. Don’t hit on or talk highly of his close buddies or family

If you are attracted to his best friend, or his younger brother is Taylor Lautner, keep it to yourself and act like your guy is the most attractive man on the planet to you!

Guys can be very insecure, and if you often talk about someone else other then him, and your eyes get lost at the thought, he will die a little inside.

Share it with the girls, not him!

5. Don’t mention his hair loss

Hair-loss makes a man feel like his looks are withering away, EVEN if that’s not the case. While at the end of the day, it’s all about confidence, and some guys can rock the cueball. This is most guys worse nightmare.

Not to mention stress and talking about it doesn’t help. This is a very sensitive topic for men, so if you want to be on his good side, avoid it like the plague.

Thanks for reading today’s article. For more on how to seduce men <— check out my brand new site!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

Believe it or not, dirty talk is the most important aspect to everyone’s sex life!

And let’s face it, moaning, panting, whispering sweet nothings, body language…

…they are ALL forms of communication between two lovers…

And communication between two lovers is dirty talk!

Acknowledgment is how we can tell whether we’ve done something right or something wrong.

And it is very important.

If your partner makes you dinner, and you don’t acknowledge it tastes good (or lie , chances are their feelings will be hurt on some level.

It’s the same thing sexually.

If you are extremely quiet during sex (or with your dirty talk), I can guarantee you that your partner doesn’t have a lot of confidence in bed.

So for the sake of your own enjoyment, I urge you to read up. We have tons of great articles (plus a great mailing list for women), and a whole book devoted towards teaching you how to heat up your dirty talk.

The best sex life has nothing to do with physical attributes, trust me …it’s connecting with someone mentally, and verbally that will give your sex life a shot of sexy adrenaline.

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

Talking about Ex-partners is yet another contentious issue that comes up in MANY relationships.

It’s something that needs attention at some point, but not too much attention. There is nothing worse then someone who goes on and on about their last relationship, so I wanted to put together a video with a little feedback on my thoughts on talking about your ex.

Afraid to tell your partner how many people you’ve been with?

No one likes to have that conversation… so here are some tips on how you should approach having the numbers talk.

Imagine…

It’s Friday night and you’ve had a lonnnnng week. You have been looking forward to some hanky panky with your lover for DAYS now.

You decide to surprise them with some new moves.

After everything going quite well, you are thinking ‘you didn’t expect THAT did you!’ so you ask them:

“do you like that?”

And they say:

“it’s different…”

Yikes!

Your confidence is crushed.

You try to revert to what you know works, but now you are embarrassed you even strayed from your old methods.

What were you thinking!?

Now you want to do something, ANYTHING else because you are humiliated inside…

Well, the good news is if you are reading this, I can help YOU avoid future situations like the above which, depending on how long you have been in your relationship, could cripple it.

Dirty talk is a fun topic. I have created an entire website about it because it’s an art form, something that takes time to master.

But today, I am going to give you 5 dirty talk bombs that, IF you learn to avoid, could SAVE you from future embarrassment or awkwardness.

1. Hairy

Let’s face it, anytime you said the word hairy in a sentence, whatever you are talking about CAN’T be good.

What’s good AND hairy… nothing.

I’m not saying hair isn’t good, but if you notice excessive amounts of hair on someone and actually say something to them, you could emotionally devastate them.

2. Weird

“How does that feel baby?”

“Weird…”

…ouch!

Weird is not a good word to use sexually. It’s another way, a NICE way, to say bad or don’t ever try that on me again!

In a worst case scenario you don’t like what your partner is doing, and you don’t really care that much about them, then it’s suitable. But if you don’t want to destroy their confidence… lie!

3. Interesting

There is a look that goes along with the word interesting in the bedroom. It is usually paired with raised eyebrows and feigned interest/excitement.

It is a word that does not belong in your dirty talk vocabulary as it is INSTANTLY associated as obvious disapproval.

“Do you like my sexy new haircut?”

“It’s… interesting!”

“You hate it DON’T you!”

4. Small

Nobody likes to hear the word small in the bedroom.

What is good AND small?

Small booty, small boobs, small package, small lips, small eyes, small nipples… NONE of those are good.

If your partner suffers from smallitis, it would be in your best interest not to mention it. For some reason, BIG is sexy, so if you ever feel the urge to use small, replace it with big.

Big booty, big boobs, big package, big lips, big eyes, big nipples… see! With the exception to the last one (unless you’re into BIG nipples) that tiny change equals better dirty talk.

5. Different

The d-bomb is a great way to make your partner feel like a complete outcast.

People want to be better, not different.

“Aren’t I better then your ex at [verb]?”

“You’re different.”

Zing. That hurt.

Remember, dirty talk is about making your partner feel sexy, and that you are comfortable with and enjoy their company. Don’t make them feel… different!

Hopefully your dirty talk iq has now been raised a couple notches, and from now on you will avoid (unless you want to) humiliating your partner at their most vulnerable time.

Thanks for tuning in!

I hope you enjoyed my article, and please tweet / fb this article to share these possible relationship-saving tips with others.

Stay sexy!

Evan Michaels

1. Don’t converse

He wants to think he’s pleasuring you at ALL times in the bedroom …so if you are thinking AND talking about the day while he’s doing his thang, you’ll CRUSH his ego.

BE AWARE of this, and always use body language/dirty talk to keep his mojo working hard to please YOU.

Unless of course he likes it…

But most guys don’t.

2. Don’t try something TOTALLY different from YOUR personality

Dirty talk included, take it easy at first.

But I’m talking more dramatic things here. I received an email from a woman who was very shy but eager to please …and while in the act with her boyfriend she slapped him hard in the face and said ‘C’mon, give it to me!’!!! She laughed about it later but said his jaw dropped and he completely froze for about 10 seconds.

The point is, BE CAREFUL when trying new things …sure it depends who you’re with, but consider this a stern reminder!

Baby steps.

Build up your confidence and repertoire. The path to a complete sexy goddess is a long one.

3. Don’t avoid eye contact

Just because you can’t have a regular conversation during sex DOESN’T mean you should just lay there avoiding eye contact.

As mentioned earlier, a guy wants to think he’s giving you the best sex you’ve EVER had (it’s an ego thing)… and if you just laying there not acknowledging him, he’s going to think:

I might be exaggerating a little, but eye contact is a HUGE factor in sex for men, and if you avoid it, he’ll assume you’re thinking about someone else.

…If that’s the case, switch to doggy-style!

A guys opinion.

Evan Michaels

One big thing I see and remember from doing a lot of dating, is women (and men too) talking too much. Whether it’s out of nervousness or what, it can be very frustrating when you’re trying to get to know someone…so here’s a video about what to do about it: