If you want to learn how to have hot sex,  you must:

• be brave
• be adventurous
• be spontaneous

Hot sex has a lot to do with attraction, imagination, and energy…

It should NOT be intimate. It should not be slow and lovey dovey. It’s about passion, pleasure, and sweat

Hot sex is all about action and no delay. The last thing you want to do is hesitate or hum and haw over what to do next.

Power and knowing what you want is sexy. Take charge, and commit. Don’t over-think and do what feels good.

Asides from spontaneity, there’s two things I highly recommend for red-hot sex every time:

1. Dirty Talk

2. Role-Playing

Dirty talk is the difference between boring, predictable sex …and satisfy your partner like never before sex. It makes for exciting, memorable sex sessions over and over again. And the more you do it, the better you get. I wrote amazing products covering dirty talk in great detail because it has such a HUGE impact on your sex life. So if you haven’t checked them out already, you’re missing out!

Role-Playing always makes for hot-sex. The best part about it, is because you’re “acting”, you’re basically free to say whatever you want without feeling guilty. If you’re a generally shy person, you get to act like someone else which might help bring you out of your shell. It gives you so many scenarios to use dirty talk in, it ties in nicely together.

If you want to learn how to have hot sex every time, master these two things, and you will be bragging about your sex life every chance you get.

For more information on the extremely popular Dirty Talk Handbooks click the links below:

How to talk dirty to men

How to talk dirty to women

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

Maybe you have a hot date tonight…

Maybe you’re having an online conversation that just took a sexy turn…

Whatever it is, you need to get good at talking dirty fast!

The problem is, when it comes to dirty talk the only thing that comes to your mind are completely over-the-top cliches that even just thinking about are make you embarrassed.

So what do you do?

Well because you ARE in a rush, I will get straight to the point.

ASQ!

That’s it, the answer to all your dirty talk problems.

Oops. Let me quickly explain…

Ask Sexy Questions

If you are EVER struggling with what to say, or your mind goes blank in the middle of a red-hot texting conversation, fire off a sexy question.

The beauty of this strategy is:

• it takes the pressure off of you to be creative and sexy on the spot
• it allows the other person to use their imagination, so if they initiated the dirty talk they’ll be having a blast answering you
• their answers give you dirty talk ammo. So once they tell you their fantasies, you will learn how to talk dirty to them after

It really is amazing how a quick question can really get the party started. Simple questions such as “What’s the sexiest date you can think of”, or for those who really want to get into it “What’s your favorite position/place to have sex” will start a chain of exciting conversational events that can keep going and going until you want it to stop.

A conversation can usually go something like this:

What’s your favorite position?

Definitely doggy-style

Mmm, me too! Why do you like it?

Because of the view, it’s sooo hott! You?

I feel so sexy and in control. Where’s the craziest place you’ve done it?

In my backyard. But I’ve always wanted to do it on the beach

Well maybe if you’re lucky it might happen. But what will you do for me?

And as you can imagine, this can keep going and going and keep getting hotter. Also, the person asking the questions revealed a fantasy of the other person (sex on the beach) which they can explore at a later time…

The trick to dirty talk is not getting too wild too soon. You must be yourself. So if you just memorize some freak-deaky lines that don’t fit your personality, it’s not going to come across sexy and honest.

Think of a couple questions that you feel comfortable with and go from there.

Hopefully this gives you some idea of how sexy it can be just to ask questions (and how quickly it can effect your sex life).

If you have any sexy questions you can think of to ask your lover during sex, over the phone, on text messages, please comment below to share with other readers.

So that’s it for today! Thanks for reading, and as always, stay sexy!

Evan Michaels

Want to drive your lover insane with desire?

Of course you do.

So here are 3 incredibly sexy dirty talk tips that will send your partner to cloud 9.

1. Smize At Their Prize

When telling your lover how bad you want to  **** them, don’t just tell them with words …use your eyes too.

Seducing your lover with your eyes while talking dirty adds a dramatic tantalizing effect. Try it out!

2. Use Their Back As A Scratching Post

As a guy, nothing lets me know I’m delivering the goods better than when I’m getting clawed at. Don’t dig too deep, but adding scratching to your sex / dirty talk will let them know they are rocking your world …and nothing gets a guy/gal hotter than knowing they are satisfying you in bed!

Guys, instead of scratching (which isn’t very manly) use your muscles to hold her in place by flexing all your muscles. It lets her know you want that awesome feeling to last.

3. Where Did That Come From

Even if a couple has been together for years or you’re on a one night stand, acting surprised (in a good way) is a super turn on.

“Omg! It feels HUGE right now”
“Wow, you feel unbelievable!”

Acting surprised/amazed when you see your partner naked, or when they stick it in is super sexy and never gets old. It gives you lots of dirty talk angles and really spices things up. Give it a shot!

Dirty talk makes sex amazing.

Start off small, practice, and in no time you will be having serious rock-star sex.

If you haven’t checked out our red-hot Dirty Talk Handbooks yet THEY WILL CHANGE YOUR SEX LIFE FOREVER! Check it out by clicking here and following the appropriate link.

If you have an old or ripped up shirt, your first instinct might be to throw it away right?

WRONG!

Put it on and have your lover rip it off during sex <- It’s fun

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Be sure to watch this video to help ensure you deliver sizzling dirty talk.

Ill give you one of the secrets to driving your lover wild…

…make them feel memorable.

This might seem like a small sentence, but it packs a punch!

Most people (whether they admit it or not) are very proud.

Everybody wants to know (or at least think) that no one else can satisfy you like them. We are naturally competitive, and that’s a good thing.

It makes it extremely easy to send your lover into a frenzy of sexual anticipation if you know what to say.

One of the key aspects of great dirty talk is compliments.

Compliments make people feel acknowledged = memorable. And when people feel proud, they are confident and in a great mood. And let’s face it, people are way more fun to be around when they are in a great mood (and the sex is way better too).

So here are some things to compliment your partner on (work this into your dirty talk):

Guys:

• his package <- a guy will NEVER get tired about hearing how big/nice his unit is. You could say this every day and he will love it ‘wow, it feels huge’
• his body <- all guys likes to be complimented. Either talk about his body, or pick something out in particular and talk about it ‘your chest is so sexy, I can’t wait to rip your shirt off’
• his skill <- does he know what he’s doing down there? Make him feel memorable and make his day ‘no one knows how to please me like you do’your sex life <- try saying ‘that was the best sex I’ve ever had’. He will immediately feel like he won something by beating out your former lovers. Trust me, he will love this.

Women:

• her looks <- a woman most likely won’t tire about hearing how beautiful/sexy she is. She will feel attractive, confident, and much more open ‘I’m a lucky guy to be able to look at you so much’
• her attitude <- acknowledge and appreciate when your woman is doing something for you. Most women don’t have the same sexual drive as men, so make them feel appreciated when they go above and beyond ‘that was awesome! I’m going to sleep well tonight ’
• her effort <- the more satisfied you are, the better she will feel about her job ‘wow, no one has ever pleased me like that before’

As you can tell, it’s not the dirty talk examples that make someone great at dirty talk. You forget examples in the bedroom …or if you do remember them, you will run out of things to say when they want more.

It’s about learning what turns your partner on and why. Once you understand what they want, you will be able to blow their socks off over and over again.

To learn ALL of the secrets behind how to drive your partner absolutely wild, click the following links:  learn how to talk dirty to men, or how to talk dirty to women.

To a great sex life!

Evan Michaels & Jess Summers

Long past are the days when a woman would wait around for Mr. Right to ask her out so they can live together happily ever after.

The reality is, if women don’t learn how to get attention from the types of men they are interested in, it is likely they will get hit on by the wrong kind of guys (if any), and will have a hard time finding a satisfying long-term relationship.

My name is Evan Michaels, and I have helped tens of thousands of women peek into the minds of men for a backstage pass into what they are thinking. Many women email me asking for advice on how to attract men, so today I want to give some quick advice as to how to become irresistible to men.

If you want to meet nice guys who aren’t looking for a one night stand…

Be fun, be simple.

Most guys hate drama. All we want is to be around someone fun, who doesn’t worry about the little things.

Many women worry too much. Worry about what the guy will think, and create all of these ‘what if’ scenarios in her brain that cause doubt and fear.

Relax!

If you are with a friend, shoot some pool, play some darts, or just talk.

But whatever you are doing, have a good time, and be in a good mood.

If you make eye contact with the guy you are interested in, flash him a nice inviting smile, and slowly drag your eyes back to what you were doing, hinting you want him to come over.

Remember, guys do NOT want to hit on women that look stuck up or are intimidating. So don’t act too cool for school.

A really fun ice-breaker once he does approach, is instantly get the conversation going with a game. Quickly introduce yourself once he has, and say ‘so my friend and I are trying to guess the jobs of people just by looking at them. I’m convinced that that girl works at the zoo. He is a masseuse… what do you think he does’ while pointing to a stranger, and see what he says back.

This starts off the conversation in a great way that takes the pressure off of initial conversation, and the BEST part is about it …if there are any awkward moments in the conversation, you can always go back to it ‘so what about that guy, what do you think he does?’

You don’t have to use the job scenario, you can do whatever you want. But this little game does a number of things.

First, it is a screening process for you. Depending on the little game you play, if his answers aren’t what you hoped they were and you can instantly tell he’s not the kind of guy you are interested in, you can quietly excuse yourself and get back to your friend.

But second, it’s fun. Instantly you have been much more exciting than whatever else that guy has been doing, and he’s going to want to be around you, let alone probably offer to buy you a drink. Remember, it takes guts for guys to approach women.

So if you can make it easy for the kind of guys you want to hit on you,  that attitude is going to make you irresistible to men!

Hopefully you enjoyed my tip on how to attract men. For an incredible in depth guide packed full of great tips like this, be sure to check out my new web site: www.secretstoattractingmen.com.

Give it a try! Go and have some fun tonight.

Evan Michaels

As you get better at talking dirty, the more fun it is.

However if you are new to dirty talk, you probably have a tough time saying certain things to your partner. Especially if you haven’t been very vocal in the past.

But what better time to begin than right now!?

Like anything, it takes practice to deliver irresistible dirty talk. Who cares if you are shy at first, because trust me, it’s extremely fun and worth learning.

So today’s challenge is …I want you to take 1 dirty talk line in your repertoire, and make it even dirtier. And I want you to say it to your lover tonight.

Here are some examples:

Women

If you were going to initiate you might normally say “I want you so bad”

But I want you to try something along the lines of this instead “I want your cock inside me so bad”

As you can imagine, this could be a lot dirtier still, however you need to start off small and work your way up.

Men

Instead of saying “You are so tight” or “You are so hot baby”

Try things like “You pussy feels amazing!” or “God dam you’re sexy”

As you practice saying these things your will begin to start thinking of more and more ways to satisfy your lover with custom dirty talk.

If you just search the internet for different dirty talk examples and never learn how to actually talk dirty, when you run out of things and your lover wants more you are going to be extremely embarrassed.

So take your time, and practice practice practice. For what to say next, and everything you EVER need to know about dirty talk, check out our dirty talk courses here.

That’s it for today. Go have some fun!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels & Jess Summers

“Tell me what you would do to me…”

One tiny little sentence can crank up the heat in any phone conversation. And the best part is, it will bring back a different answer EVERY time.

Talking sexy on the phone is fantastic, however, for couples forced to dirty talk from a distance (because of jobs or school), it can be a little awkward at first.

So today we’re going to give you some tips on how to sexy talk on the phone.

1. Have fun with it (aka – laugh at yourself)

You might feel a little ridiculous at times, but that’s normal. The goal here is to keep the romance alive. The purpose isn’t always to …”finish”, but more to get your part fantasizing about you as much as possible when they can’t be with you.

Relax, have a drink, get comfortable, and have fun!

2. Be prepared

Like anything, the more you do it and the more prepared you are, the easier it will be.

There are plenty of dirty talk examples on this site (not to mention the must-read Dirty Talk Handbook). Write a few down if you want (no one will see you!), rehearse a little, and don’t forget; asking questions is a great way to take the heat off yourself.

3. Deliver

Be confident with what you are saying, and say it with conviction.

People love to hear that they are unique or special. So when you are telling your lover about what you love about them, say it and sound excited. Even exaggerate a little “You have the nicest X I have ever seen!”.

Your voice will make the dirty talk. Don’t strain to sound sexy, just try to really believe what you are saying. If you sound honest, it will be incredibly hot.

Enjoy it.

Just the fact you have someone to talk sexy on the phone with is awesome and you are lucky. Some people would kill to have that much trust with someone from the opposite sex. So embrace it.

If you make a mistake, big whoop. Chances are your partner is just as nervous or self-conscious as you are.

That’s it for today. Now go have some fun!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

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More to come shortly, we just wanted to keep everyone in the loop. We’ll be updating lots on Twitter (dirtytalktips) in the upcoming months as we have some big changes coming up that will benefit everyone on our mailing lists and all of our customers, so don’t forget to follow us there.

Hope you had a great weekend!

Evan Michaels