Learning how to give oral can make the difference between being a boring, forgettable lover …or a memorable, think-about-her-and-it-turns-me-on type of lover.

And if you’re anything like me, you want to WOW your partner in the sack and practically leave them speechless with satisfaction!

Unfortunately most women along the way either don’t realize how crazy guys go for great oral, or are too shy to ask how to give one, and neglect a very vital skill in ones sexual arsenal …the blow job.

So today I want to offer a few quick tips for those of you who give your man something he’s been hoping for his whole life.

A great blow job consists of 3 important things…

1. Unpredictable behavior

2. Occasional eye contact

3. Passion!

The predictable is boring. It just is. You know what’s coming next, and there are no surprises along the way.

If you think there is only one movement to perform while giving a blow job then you need to read this right now.  But don’t do any ONE thing for too long. Switch it up, keep him guessing. Every time will be different, which means every time will be exciting. Another important thing in this category would be the position in which you service him. Don’t always lay him down in bed and go between his legs, switch it up and do it in a chair or even standing up once and awhile. Make his day!

Eye-contact is one of the most skipped things women tend to avoid when giving a dead-sexy blow job.

Guys don’t expect to hold a stare or anything, but locking eyes for a split second every now and then reminds him he’d better enjoy this while it lasts.

Which leads right in to, passion…

If you give a passionate blow job and really sell yourself and that you LOVE satisfying your man, he will go hog-wild, I guarantee it. There is NOTHING sexier than a woman who loves what she’s doing, and if you have that attitude while making your mans day, he’s going to feel like a million bucks.

Let me explain what most women do when giving a blow job, then hopefully you can see how the above tips alone will erupt your sex life and bring out a whole new personality in your man…

Woman turns off the lights… (First wrong move! Gives want, NEED to see what’s going on)

Couple routinely undresses (as it’s Saturday night, most couples have a predictable sex schedule) and climbs under the sheets.

After a few minutes of gentle kissing and caressing the woman starts lowering her kisses down his chin, chest, and eventually makes her way to his package.

Here she holds it loosely (a good grip is great!) and slowly does what she thinks feels good.

MEANWHILE the guy is trying to think sexy thoughts so he can stay hard. It feels ok, but after a few minutes he changes the pace into sex because that blow job wasn’t going ANYWHERE. In what should only take 2-3 minutes, she managed to completely almost kill the mood.

Don’t let the above describe your sex life! Do something about it.

Hopefully you’ve enjoyed my tips above and apply them to your sex life. And if you really want to learn how to give the BEST oral, I’ve created an entire step-by-step guide that reveals EVERYTHING a guy is desperate for. Check it out here.

That’s it for today, now go have some fun!

And as always, stay sexy.

Evan Michaels
evan@dirtytalktips.com

If you want to learn how to have hot sex,  you must:

• be brave
• be adventurous
• be spontaneous

Hot sex has a lot to do with attraction, imagination, and energy…

It should NOT be intimate. It should not be slow and lovey dovey. It’s about passion, pleasure, and sweat

Hot sex is all about action and no delay. The last thing you want to do is hesitate or hum and haw over what to do next.

Power and knowing what you want is sexy. Take charge, and commit. Don’t over-think and do what feels good.

Asides from spontaneity, there’s two things I highly recommend for red-hot sex every time:

1. Dirty Talk

2. Role-Playing

Dirty talk is the difference between boring, predictable sex …and satisfy your partner like never before sex. It makes for exciting, memorable sex sessions over and over again. And the more you do it, the better you get. I wrote amazing products covering dirty talk in great detail because it has such a HUGE impact on your sex life. So if you haven’t checked them out already, you’re missing out!

Role-Playing always makes for hot-sex. The best part about it, is because you’re “acting”, you’re basically free to say whatever you want without feeling guilty. If you’re a generally shy person, you get to act like someone else which might help bring you out of your shell. It gives you so many scenarios to use dirty talk in, it ties in nicely together.

If you want to learn how to have hot sex every time, master these two things, and you will be bragging about your sex life every chance you get.

For more information on the extremely popular Dirty Talk Handbooks click the links below:

How to talk dirty to men

How to talk dirty to women

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

Maybe you have a hot date tonight…

Maybe you’re having an online conversation that just took a sexy turn…

Whatever it is, you need to get good at talking dirty fast!

The problem is, when it comes to dirty talk the only thing that comes to your mind are completely over-the-top cliches that even just thinking about are make you embarrassed.

So what do you do?

Well because you ARE in a rush, I will get straight to the point.

ASQ!

That’s it, the answer to all your dirty talk problems.

Oops. Let me quickly explain…

Ask Sexy Questions

If you are EVER struggling with what to say, or your mind goes blank in the middle of a red-hot texting conversation, fire off a sexy question.

The beauty of this strategy is:

• it takes the pressure off of you to be creative and sexy on the spot
• it allows the other person to use their imagination, so if they initiated the dirty talk they’ll be having a blast answering you
• their answers give you dirty talk ammo. So once they tell you their fantasies, you will learn how to talk dirty to them after

It really is amazing how a quick question can really get the party started. Simple questions such as “What’s the sexiest date you can think of”, or for those who really want to get into it “What’s your favorite position/place to have sex” will start a chain of exciting conversational events that can keep going and going until you want it to stop.

A conversation can usually go something like this:

What’s your favorite position?

Definitely doggy-style

Mmm, me too! Why do you like it?

Because of the view, it’s sooo hott! You?

I feel so sexy and in control. Where’s the craziest place you’ve done it?

In my backyard. But I’ve always wanted to do it on the beach

Well maybe if you’re lucky it might happen. But what will you do for me?

And as you can imagine, this can keep going and going and keep getting hotter. Also, the person asking the questions revealed a fantasy of the other person (sex on the beach) which they can explore at a later time…

The trick to dirty talk is not getting too wild too soon. You must be yourself. So if you just memorize some freak-deaky lines that don’t fit your personality, it’s not going to come across sexy and honest.

Think of a couple questions that you feel comfortable with and go from there.

Hopefully this gives you some idea of how sexy it can be just to ask questions (and how quickly it can effect your sex life).

If you have any sexy questions you can think of to ask your lover during sex, over the phone, on text messages, please comment below to share with other readers.

So that’s it for today! Thanks for reading, and as always, stay sexy!

Evan Michaels

Want to drive your lover insane with desire?

Of course you do.

So here are 3 incredibly sexy dirty talk tips that will send your partner to cloud 9.

1. Smize At Their Prize

When telling your lover how bad you want to  **** them, don’t just tell them with words …use your eyes too.

Seducing your lover with your eyes while talking dirty adds a dramatic tantalizing effect. Try it out!

2. Use Their Back As A Scratching Post

As a guy, nothing lets me know I’m delivering the goods better than when I’m getting clawed at. Don’t dig too deep, but adding scratching to your sex / dirty talk will let them know they are rocking your world …and nothing gets a guy/gal hotter than knowing they are satisfying you in bed!

Guys, instead of scratching (which isn’t very manly) use your muscles to hold her in place by flexing all your muscles. It lets her know you want that awesome feeling to last.

3. Where Did That Come From

Even if a couple has been together for years or you’re on a one night stand, acting surprised (in a good way) is a super turn on.

“Omg! It feels HUGE right now”
“Wow, you feel unbelievable!”

Acting surprised/amazed when you see your partner naked, or when they stick it in is super sexy and never gets old. It gives you lots of dirty talk angles and really spices things up. Give it a shot!

Dirty talk makes sex amazing.

Start off small, practice, and in no time you will be having serious rock-star sex.

If you haven’t checked out our red-hot Dirty Talk Handbooks yet THEY WILL CHANGE YOUR SEX LIFE FOREVER! Check it out by clicking here and following the appropriate link.

If you have an old or ripped up shirt, your first instinct might be to throw it away right?

WRONG!

Put it on and have your lover rip it off during sex <- It’s fun

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Be sure to watch this video to help ensure you deliver sizzling dirty talk.

Ill give you one of the secrets to driving your lover wild…

…make them feel memorable.

This might seem like a small sentence, but it packs a punch!

Most people (whether they admit it or not) are very proud.

Everybody wants to know (or at least think) that no one else can satisfy you like them. We are naturally competitive, and that’s a good thing.

It makes it extremely easy to send your lover into a frenzy of sexual anticipation if you know what to say.

One of the key aspects of great dirty talk is compliments.

Compliments make people feel acknowledged = memorable. And when people feel proud, they are confident and in a great mood. And let’s face it, people are way more fun to be around when they are in a great mood (and the sex is way better too).

So here are some things to compliment your partner on (work this into your dirty talk):

Guys:

• his package <- a guy will NEVER get tired about hearing how big/nice his unit is. You could say this every day and he will love it ‘wow, it feels huge’
• his body <- all guys likes to be complimented. Either talk about his body, or pick something out in particular and talk about it ‘your chest is so sexy, I can’t wait to rip your shirt off’
• his skill <- does he know what he’s doing down there? Make him feel memorable and make his day ‘no one knows how to please me like you do’your sex life <- try saying ‘that was the best sex I’ve ever had’. He will immediately feel like he won something by beating out your former lovers. Trust me, he will love this.

Women:

• her looks <- a woman most likely won’t tire about hearing how beautiful/sexy she is. She will feel attractive, confident, and much more open ‘I’m a lucky guy to be able to look at you so much’
• her attitude <- acknowledge and appreciate when your woman is doing something for you. Most women don’t have the same sexual drive as men, so make them feel appreciated when they go above and beyond ‘that was awesome! I’m going to sleep well tonight ’
• her effort <- the more satisfied you are, the better she will feel about her job ‘wow, no one has ever pleased me like that before’

As you can tell, it’s not the dirty talk examples that make someone great at dirty talk. You forget examples in the bedroom …or if you do remember them, you will run out of things to say when they want more.

It’s about learning what turns your partner on and why. Once you understand what they want, you will be able to blow their socks off over and over again.

To learn ALL of the secrets behind how to drive your partner absolutely wild, click the following links:  learn how to talk dirty to men, or how to talk dirty to women.

To a great sex life!

Evan Michaels & Jess Summers

Long past are the days when a woman would wait around for Mr. Right to ask her out so they can live together happily ever after.

The reality is, if women don’t learn how to get attention from the types of men they are interested in, it is likely they will get hit on by the wrong kind of guys (if any), and will have a hard time finding a satisfying long-term relationship.

My name is Evan Michaels, and I have helped tens of thousands of women peek into the minds of men for a backstage pass into what they are thinking. Many women email me asking for advice on how to attract men, so today I want to give some quick advice as to how to become irresistible to men.

If you want to meet nice guys who aren’t looking for a one night stand…

Be fun, be simple.

Most guys hate drama. All we want is to be around someone fun, who doesn’t worry about the little things.

Many women worry too much. Worry about what the guy will think, and create all of these ‘what if’ scenarios in her brain that cause doubt and fear.

Relax!

If you are with a friend, shoot some pool, play some darts, or just talk.

But whatever you are doing, have a good time, and be in a good mood.

If you make eye contact with the guy you are interested in, flash him a nice inviting smile, and slowly drag your eyes back to what you were doing, hinting you want him to come over.

Remember, guys do NOT want to hit on women that look stuck up or are intimidating. So don’t act too cool for school.

A really fun ice-breaker once he does approach, is instantly get the conversation going with a game. Quickly introduce yourself once he has, and say ‘so my friend and I are trying to guess the jobs of people just by looking at them. I’m convinced that that girl works at the zoo. He is a masseuse… what do you think he does’ while pointing to a stranger, and see what he says back.

This starts off the conversation in a great way that takes the pressure off of initial conversation, and the BEST part is about it …if there are any awkward moments in the conversation, you can always go back to it ‘so what about that guy, what do you think he does?’

You don’t have to use the job scenario, you can do whatever you want. But this little game does a number of things.

First, it is a screening process for you. Depending on the little game you play, if his answers aren’t what you hoped they were and you can instantly tell he’s not the kind of guy you are interested in, you can quietly excuse yourself and get back to your friend.

But second, it’s fun. Instantly you have been much more exciting than whatever else that guy has been doing, and he’s going to want to be around you, let alone probably offer to buy you a drink. Remember, it takes guts for guys to approach women.

So if you can make it easy for the kind of guys you want to hit on you,  that attitude is going to make you irresistible to men!

Hopefully you enjoyed my tip on how to attract men. For an incredible in depth guide packed full of great tips like this, be sure to check out my new web site: www.secretstoattractingmen.com.

Give it a try! Go and have some fun tonight.

Evan Michaels

The best part about the time we live in is having access to information. We can become experts at whatever we want thanks to the internet.

Remember when you were a teenager and you were nervous about your first kiss, or the first time you, you know?    You were worried you didn’t know what to do, or if you sucked at it.

Dirty talk is the adult version of that.

Most people have NO clue what the opposite sex wants, and just embarrass themselves, or get incredibly awkward.

The reality is, if you never learn what the opposite sex truly wants, you are never going to satisfy them.

The good news is it isn’t difficult to learn how to talk dirty and become an amazing lover. It just takes a little time, and a little practice.

The reason why this website is so ground-breaking, is that hundreds of people have come together to discuss what turns them on, what turns them off, why things turn them on, and everything in between.

There is no reason why you shouldn’t learn how to satisfy your partner. We have helped thousands of people and we can certainly help you too.

To get started, there are a number of resources on this website. There is plenty of free information on the site, more in the newsletter, but of course we saved the best most intense information for our lucky customers who purchase The Dirty Talk Handbooks (everything you need to learn how to be a rock star in the bedroom)!

Whether you want to just get some free tips, or get a copy of our hot-selling courses and wow your partner(s), just take action!

Your sex life deserves it. Life is short, enjoy it!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels & Jess Summers
Founder / dirtytalktips.com

Keeping your sex life exciting is a problem faced by couples in relationships the world over. The sexual spark often fades and intimacy can become boring, mundane, or even non-existent. Even if a couple once couldn’t keep their hands off each other, it’s common for people’s sex lives to reduce to the once-a-week-Friday-night-quickie-before-bed routine.

Reigniting that spark is an equally common problem. Couples in long-term relationships often struggle to find new ways to make sex exciting, and many long for that heart-fluttering giddy feeling they had when their relationship was new.

But now women everywhere are discovering how to recharge their sex lives by driving their partners wild in bed with mind-blowing dirty talk. Written by relationship expert, Evan Michaels, The Dirty Talk Handbook is a new book available for download from his website, www.DirtyTalkTips.com.

The book allows women to transform their sex lives by helping them build confidence in the bedroom, and discover the things men secretly crave women to say during sex.

“What sets this book apart is that it’s written by a man for women,” says Michaels. “It’s a no-holds-barred exposé of what men really want when it comes to dirty talk”

Recognizing that some women may be apprehensive about suddenly talking dirty in front of their partner, Michaels has developed a step-by-step system that helps women practice and build their confidence before they take the plunge.

“Women don’t want to sound like porn stars in bed,” says Michaels. “And nor should they. I encourage women to think about dirty talk differently — to make it a healthy part of a healthy sex life.”

“First, it’s important to increase self confidence, learn what men want to hear, and take things at your own pace. But before they know it, many women say their sex lives are way better than when they were first with their partners.”

The book features detailed tips on how to deliver sexy, natural dirty talk, as well as how to use different techniques in and out of the bedroom, such as talking, texting and e-mailing. With hundreds of examples of things to say and phrases to use, women also learn how to figure out what type of guy their partner is and what will turn him on. Advanced techniques include mastering body language, facial expressions and voice control for even more powerful dirty talk and how bedroom games and role playing can add another dimension to talking dirty.

www.DirtyTalkTips.com was founded by Evan Michaels from Vancouver, BC, Canada to help men and women learn how to spice up their sex lives in fun and exciting ways by discovering the art of talking dirty. With the help of Jess Summers, Evan has created dirty talk handbooks for each gender from the other’s point of view — each written by a member of the opposite sex. Evan is pleased to report his relationship is as exciting and sizzling as ever!