If you want to learn how to talk dirty to a girl over text, there are 3 things you need to keep in mind:

1. Don’t be cheesy
2. Don’t be degrading
3. Don’t sound desperate

Women react well to compliments and like to know they are beautiful and unique.

Don’t be cheesy. Cliche pick up lines and flattery gets old quick! While it can be fun to hear some old repeats with some well placed timing, try not to use recycled lines used in movies if you want some serious action.

Don’t be degrading. Unless you know your girl well and know for sure she’s into some freaky deaky stuff, avoid degrading her at all costs. It’s a major turn off to most women (ie: calling her a slut, whore, b*tch, etc). Don’t command her either. You can make suggestions, but telling her what to do well make her flee whenever she gets the chance. Be nice. Be romantic.

Don’t sound desperate. If you haven’t talked dirty in a long time, have little experience, or don’t know what to say …don’t tell her! Just roll with it and have fun. If you beg and act desperate, it’s going to make you look pathetic.

The key to talking to girls over texts is to be creative and making her fee like one of a kind.

Say things and ask questions that get her imagination running WILD! Help break her out of her shell and get her saying things that she’s never told anyone else. Ask her to tell you something she’s NEVER told anyone else …maybe a fantasy, a past experience, whatever.

Nothing will get your girl running hot better than some sexy text messages. So ask some naughty questions and find out what drives her wild, then make her imagination go crazy so she takes it out on YOU later on.

For a step-by-step guide that teaches you everything you need to know about how to drive girls wild over text, be sure to check out The Dirty Talk Handbook For Guys. It’ll change your life forever!

Stay Sexy,

~Jess

So you want to talk dirty but are worried you’re going to embarrass yourself.

Does that sound about right?

Well if so you’re not alone.

Out of the thousands of people that visit our website every month, the majority of people avoid talking dirty at the risk of sounding foolish.

Most people really have no idea what to say, especially when they are with someone who obviously wants to talk dirty (or experienced talking dirty). You know your partner wants it, and you want to give it to them, but you are drawing a complete blank. And worst of all, the longer you delay, the harder it gets.

If you’ve felt the stone-cold embarrassment of not knowing how to talk dirty, worry no more! Because I’m about to give you some helpful tips about how you can learn to talk dirty without feeling like a fool…

Tip # 1 – Relax.

What’s the worst that could happen, a break-up? I doubt it…

If someone is talking dirty to you, they like you. And they’re probably not going to stop liking you. They like you asides from the fact you may or may not talk dirty. So first of all, don’t worry it. It’s about fun and that’s it!

Tip #2 – Oohhs and Ahhhs count.

If you don’t know what to say, that’s fine. Moaning and Mmmming counts too.

Body language and eye contact are also ways to acknowledge your partner, because really that’s what dirty talk is in it’s most basic form, acknowledgement. Without words you can let your partner know what feels good, what doesn’t feel good,   that you’re attracted to them, plus much, much more.

Tip #3 – Ask questions.

More often than not, one person says they want the other to talk dirty, so the other person is left not really knowing what to say.

This is actually a really easy thing to deal with, and the answer is to ask questions!

People who enjoy dirty talk have active imaginations. And the best way to get them excited is to get them talking.

Ask what they want …what they like …how they want it….

It’s an easy way to deflect the pressure on you and pass it back on to them. Plus it will give you many ideas as to what kind of things turn them on.

If you ask them what they want you to do to them they are giving you a peak behind the curtains as to what their fantasies are. So in the future, you can do this to them without asking and satisfy them more than anyone else ever could.

Life is too short to have boring sex. If you haven’t had fun talking dirty yet, what are you waiting for?

For detailed instructions on exactly what to do and say, visit > how to talk dirty today.

Maybe you have a hot date tonight…

Maybe you’re having an online conversation that just took a sexy turn…

Whatever it is, you need to get good at talking dirty fast!

The problem is, when it comes to dirty talk the only thing that comes to your mind are completely over-the-top cliches that even just thinking about are make you embarrassed.

So what do you do?

Well because you ARE in a rush, I will get straight to the point.

ASQ!

That’s it, the answer to all your dirty talk problems.

Oops. Let me quickly explain…

Ask Sexy Questions

If you are EVER struggling with what to say, or your mind goes blank in the middle of a red-hot texting conversation, fire off a sexy question.

The beauty of this strategy is:

• it takes the pressure off of you to be creative and sexy on the spot
• it allows the other person to use their imagination, so if they initiated the dirty talk they’ll be having a blast answering you
• their answers give you dirty talk ammo. So once they tell you their fantasies, you will learn how to talk dirty to them after

It really is amazing how a quick question can really get the party started. Simple questions such as “What’s the sexiest date you can think of”, or for those who really want to get into it “What’s your favorite position/place to have sex” will start a chain of exciting conversational events that can keep going and going until you want it to stop.

A conversation can usually go something like this:

What’s your favorite position?

Definitely doggy-style

Mmm, me too! Why do you like it?

Because of the view, it’s sooo hott! You?

I feel so sexy and in control. Where’s the craziest place you’ve done it?

In my backyard. But I’ve always wanted to do it on the beach

Well maybe if you’re lucky it might happen. But what will you do for me?

And as you can imagine, this can keep going and going and keep getting hotter. Also, the person asking the questions revealed a fantasy of the other person (sex on the beach) which they can explore at a later time…

The trick to dirty talk is not getting too wild too soon. You must be yourself. So if you just memorize some freak-deaky lines that don’t fit your personality, it’s not going to come across sexy and honest.

Think of a couple questions that you feel comfortable with and go from there.

Hopefully this gives you some idea of how sexy it can be just to ask questions (and how quickly it can effect your sex life).

If you have any sexy questions you can think of to ask your lover during sex, over the phone, on text messages, please comment below to share with other readers.

So that’s it for today! Thanks for reading, and as always, stay sexy!

Evan Michaels

Want to drive your lover insane with desire?

Of course you do.

So here are 3 incredibly sexy dirty talk tips that will send your partner to cloud 9.

1. Smize At Their Prize

When telling your lover how bad you want to  **** them, don’t just tell them with words …use your eyes too.

Seducing your lover with your eyes while talking dirty adds a dramatic tantalizing effect. Try it out!

2. Use Their Back As A Scratching Post

As a guy, nothing lets me know I’m delivering the goods better than when I’m getting clawed at. Don’t dig too deep, but adding scratching to your sex / dirty talk will let them know they are rocking your world …and nothing gets a guy/gal hotter than knowing they are satisfying you in bed!

Guys, instead of scratching (which isn’t very manly) use your muscles to hold her in place by flexing all your muscles. It lets her know you want that awesome feeling to last.

3. Where Did That Come From

Even if a couple has been together for years or you’re on a one night stand, acting surprised (in a good way) is a super turn on.

“Omg! It feels HUGE right now”
“Wow, you feel unbelievable!”

Acting surprised/amazed when you see your partner naked, or when they stick it in is super sexy and never gets old. It gives you lots of dirty talk angles and really spices things up. Give it a shot!

Dirty talk makes sex amazing.

Start off small, practice, and in no time you will be having serious rock-star sex.

If you haven’t checked out our red-hot Dirty Talk Handbooks yet THEY WILL CHANGE YOUR SEX LIFE FOREVER! Check it out by clicking here and following the appropriate link.

There’s no question dirty talk gets the party started, especially in the bedroom. But is there a point where you can go too far with what you say?

Well yes …definitely. But the threshold is different for everyone. And it’s important you realize – especially IF you want to get better at dirty talk – where that line is so you don’t cross it.

The whole goal of becoming great at dirty talk is to find out what kind of dirty talk turns your partner on. Because let’s face it, if a guy calls his girl a dirty whore during sex when she’s not that kind of girl, he is going to be in a world of trouble!

GENERALLY, there are 3 types of people:

1. The Freaks – these are the sex-crazed people who love to get down whenever, wherever! Nothing offends them. They are downright nasty and will eat you up in bed. You will know when you are with a freak!

2. The Normies – the majority or people fall into this category. These are usually people with a healthy sexual appetite and a willingness to explore. They get offended with over-the-top dirty talk, but get bored with a silent partner or ‘virgin’ sex.

3. The Meeks – usually due to an underexposure of sexual exploration in their teens/twenties, these people are extremely shy when it comes to anything intimate. They relate most things that feels good to being bad, and have a hard time expanding their mind and breaking out of their shell.

Remember these are just general guidelines. But the point is, IF you are just ready to explode with raunchy dirty talk and take it in to overdrive, make sure you properly categorize your partner into one of the above groups so you know whether or not they will be loving your new dirty talk, or be bailing for the door.

Here are a few dirty talk topics that might pop in your head and the proper group they fall into:

Degrading

Who likes it: The Freaks

Out of all the things you can say during dirty talk this is the one you have to be the most careful with. Some people love to be degraded during sex. They love to feel overpowered and have someone else put them in their place.

It’s really worth having a conversation over drinks beforehand about what each other gets off on, because if you call your lover (man OR woman) a filthy bitch during sex, it could be a relationship ender if you’re not careful.

If you are new in your relationship, it is not recommended you find out whether or not your partner likes being degraded during sex.

Swearing

Who likes it: The Freaks & The Normies

Swearing IF not used too often, can add a powerful impact to your dirty talk.

If your partner who rarely swears or is quite shy suddenly reveals “Tonight I’m going to f*ck your brains out.” that changes gears completely!

The problem with swearing is,  it’s often crude and sounds overly aggressive …and for The Normies, might be crossing the line if used often. If you’re a freak (or dating one) it’s hard to cross the line, but choose your words carefully if you’re with a Normie. Start off slow, and build up and experiment more and more over time.

Avoid swearing if you want the situation to be romantic. Use swearing if you want to get down and get nasty.

Teasing

Who likes it: Everybody

Some of the most fun you can have in the bedroom comes from teasing. Not about personal faults of course, I’m talking about teasing them sexually, with the pleasure they are about to experience.

If your partner is getting near an orgasm, and you slow down and ask them how bad they want it, or if they’re ready to explode all over you, this heightens their senses and makes them more aware of what’s about to happen. It sends them in to overdrive!

If done playfully, teasing can be extremely exciting. HOWEVER, if misused can cause complete frustration and annoyance.

Like any good dirty talk, start off slow and build up over time.

Is Explicit Dirty Talk For Everyone?

The short answer is no.

Dirty talk is about activating your imagination during sex. It’s about exploring your boundaries with your lover and finding out what gets you both off.

What you may realize while reading this article is well I’m a freak but my partner is a normie. If that’s the case it’s ok, but you will have to do some serious soul-searching and find out whether Normie dirty talk while keep you happy over time. Your normie partner will likely get offended at some point with what you say or once they realize what gets you off. But you can make it work.

The goal is to get your partner more hot and bothered than ever before. Take the time to figure out what kind of person they are. Once you’ve found that out, explore with some light dirty talk, and increase the intensity over time. Eventually you will find a level that excites both of you, and that translates into INCREDIBLE sex EVERY time!

Thanks for reading,

Stay sexy,

Learn How To Deliver Irresistible Dirty Talk Here!

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Explode Your Dirty Talk With This Red-Hot Tip

First off.

To any guy reading this …what a lucky girl.

Most guys will never learn how to talk dirty, and leave  many women sexually unsatisfied. Tragic!

You see women too love some good ol’ dirty talk.

We want to feel sexy, kinky, exotic …and have some, you know, rock star sex!!!

Here’s the thing …if you truly want to learn how to talk dirty to your girl, you’re going to have to learn some sweet ninja moves. Because a few random dirty talk phrases won’t do the trick.

Every girl is different …so if you’ve gotten down and dirty with her already, you should be able to tell what kind of girl she is:

1. She didn’t make a sound in bed
2. She had some good moans going on and a couple “oh yeahs”
3. She’s a total freak and asked you to call her a dirty b*tch

As you can imagine, each type of these girls needs you to talk dirty to them in different ways.

The first type are shy, delicate flowers who need help blossoming. Appreciate and flatter her. Tell her she is beautiful and ask her gentle engaging questions. Don’t call her a dirty b*tch

The second type covers the majority of women. Down for a good time but a little nervous and unsure of what to say back. Compliments always go a long way, but if you keep telling her she’s gorgeous, it doesn’t leave her with much to say back to you. Ask her sexy questions. Get her involved. Be descriptive. Be the boss a little, and take baby steps. Don’t go too crazy at first.

The third type of woman will eat you alive if you aren’t careful. She gets bored easily and is looking for another spitfire to throw down some SERIOUS game. Words like wh*re, b*tch, sl*t, are all fine here. It’s literally a no-holds bar match, and the more descriptive, more nasty, and more erotic you can be, the more you will satisfy her. Be careful with this one!!!!

If you like these tips and want to learn more please check out Dirty Talk Tips: What She Wants, I’ve put together all the most amazing dirty talk examples and a list of exactly how to go from dirty talk zero to hero for GUYS ONLY. It’s an amazing read and is guaranteed to ignite your sex life!

Go talk dirty to your girl and rock her world!!!!

Jess

Be sure to watch this video to help ensure you deliver sizzling dirty talk.

Long past are the days when a woman would wait around for Mr. Right to ask her out so they can live together happily ever after.

The reality is, if women don’t learn how to get attention from the types of men they are interested in, it is likely they will get hit on by the wrong kind of guys (if any), and will have a hard time finding a satisfying long-term relationship.

My name is Evan Michaels, and I have helped tens of thousands of women peek into the minds of men for a backstage pass into what they are thinking. Many women email me asking for advice on how to attract men, so today I want to give some quick advice as to how to become irresistible to men.

If you want to meet nice guys who aren’t looking for a one night stand…

Be fun, be simple.

Most guys hate drama. All we want is to be around someone fun, who doesn’t worry about the little things.

Many women worry too much. Worry about what the guy will think, and create all of these ‘what if’ scenarios in her brain that cause doubt and fear.

Relax!

If you are with a friend, shoot some pool, play some darts, or just talk.

But whatever you are doing, have a good time, and be in a good mood.

If you make eye contact with the guy you are interested in, flash him a nice inviting smile, and slowly drag your eyes back to what you were doing, hinting you want him to come over.

Remember, guys do NOT want to hit on women that look stuck up or are intimidating. So don’t act too cool for school.

A really fun ice-breaker once he does approach, is instantly get the conversation going with a game. Quickly introduce yourself once he has, and say ‘so my friend and I are trying to guess the jobs of people just by looking at them. I’m convinced that that girl works at the zoo. He is a masseuse… what do you think he does’ while pointing to a stranger, and see what he says back.

This starts off the conversation in a great way that takes the pressure off of initial conversation, and the BEST part is about it …if there are any awkward moments in the conversation, you can always go back to it ‘so what about that guy, what do you think he does?’

You don’t have to use the job scenario, you can do whatever you want. But this little game does a number of things.

First, it is a screening process for you. Depending on the little game you play, if his answers aren’t what you hoped they were and you can instantly tell he’s not the kind of guy you are interested in, you can quietly excuse yourself and get back to your friend.

But second, it’s fun. Instantly you have been much more exciting than whatever else that guy has been doing, and he’s going to want to be around you, let alone probably offer to buy you a drink. Remember, it takes guts for guys to approach women.

So if you can make it easy for the kind of guys you want to hit on you,  that attitude is going to make you irresistible to men!

Hopefully you enjoyed my tip on how to attract men. For an incredible in depth guide packed full of great tips like this, be sure to check out my new web site: www.secretstoattractingmen.com.

Give it a try! Go and have some fun tonight.

Evan Michaels

As you get better at talking dirty, the more fun it is.

However if you are new to dirty talk, you probably have a tough time saying certain things to your partner. Especially if you haven’t been very vocal in the past.

But what better time to begin than right now!?

Like anything, it takes practice to deliver irresistible dirty talk. Who cares if you are shy at first, because trust me, it’s extremely fun and worth learning.

So today’s challenge is …I want you to take 1 dirty talk line in your repertoire, and make it even dirtier. And I want you to say it to your lover tonight.

Here are some examples:

Women

If you were going to initiate you might normally say “I want you so bad”

But I want you to try something along the lines of this instead “I want your cock inside me so bad”

As you can imagine, this could be a lot dirtier still, however you need to start off small and work your way up.

Men

Instead of saying “You are so tight” or “You are so hot baby”

Try things like “You pussy feels amazing!” or “God dam you’re sexy”

As you practice saying these things your will begin to start thinking of more and more ways to satisfy your lover with custom dirty talk.

If you just search the internet for different dirty talk examples and never learn how to actually talk dirty, when you run out of things and your lover wants more you are going to be extremely embarrassed.

So take your time, and practice practice practice. For what to say next, and everything you EVER need to know about dirty talk, check out our dirty talk courses here.

That’s it for today. Go have some fun!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels & Jess Summers