IF you think you know exactly what men want sexually, then you NEED to read this article.

Sure men aren’t the most complicated creatures on the planet… we like meat, sports, gambling, fighting (not all of course, but most), SEX.

But just because we love sex (which is obvious) doesn’t mean that it is an easy itch to scratch, there is more to it then that.

Believe it or not men are surprisingly sensitive when it comes to sharing what they want sexually with women.

Here is what I mean…

Most guys are so grateful to get sex, they are AFRAID to tell you what they want and how they want it. Yep, it’s true.

So I’m here to tell YOU exactly what men want sexually!

First of all, guys are dominant creatures. We like to feel manly, and we like to feel strong. But most importantly, we like to feel we are doing a good job.

Men want to think they are the best most exciting partner you have ever had!!! I know it sounds stupid, but we want to feel unique  and memorable somehow… I didn’t say we are the smartest creatures!

We want to be able to throw you down, have our way (while you are impressed with our dominance) while you dirty talk, moan, and scream until a big finish. Finished off with a little bit of pillow talk talking about how amazing it was.

Sounds silly right?

EVERY single time you get together doesn’t have to be like this, but if you allow him to control the situation once and awhile, you will notice his eyes wandering less, and he will be talking about you to his work buddies a LOT more.

On top of this comes the topic of foreplay.,,

Do guys like foreplay?

Definitely!

Foreplay doesn’t always have to lead to sex either… I know that sounds strange for some of you, but a sex session can wholly be replaced by oral or other methods (use your imagination).

Guys LOVE the idea of having a quick session (sex/oral/etc.) in places out of the norm too: ie, the car, shower, beach, etc…

It doesn’t have to be a long marathon, but if you show some spontaneity and a sense of adventure you will give him more then what he wants sexually.

Hope that gives you a little more insight to the male psyche.

Until next time…

Evan Michaels

1. Don’t converse

He wants to think he’s pleasuring you at ALL times in the bedroom …so if you are thinking AND talking about the day while he’s doing his thang, you’ll CRUSH his ego.

BE AWARE of this, and always use body language/dirty talk to keep his mojo working hard to please YOU.

Unless of course he likes it…

But most guys don’t.

2. Don’t try something TOTALLY different from YOUR personality

Dirty talk included, take it easy at first.

But I’m talking more dramatic things here. I received an email from a woman who was very shy but eager to please …and while in the act with her boyfriend she slapped him hard in the face and said ‘C’mon, give it to me!’!!! She laughed about it later but said his jaw dropped and he completely froze for about 10 seconds.

The point is, BE CAREFUL when trying new things …sure it depends who you’re with, but consider this a stern reminder!

Baby steps.

Build up your confidence and repertoire. The path to a complete sexy goddess is a long one.

3. Don’t avoid eye contact

Just because you can’t have a regular conversation during sex DOESN’T mean you should just lay there avoiding eye contact.

As mentioned earlier, a guy wants to think he’s giving you the best sex you’ve EVER had (it’s an ego thing)… and if you just laying there not acknowledging him, he’s going to think:

I might be exaggerating a little, but eye contact is a HUGE factor in sex for men, and if you avoid it, he’ll assume you’re thinking about someone else.

…If that’s the case, switch to doggy-style!

A guys opinion.

Evan Michaels

Men often think about sex a lot. How much? Watch this video to find out.

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One big thing I see and remember from doing a lot of dating, is women (and men too) talking too much. Whether it’s out of nervousness or what, it can be very frustrating when you’re trying to get to know someone…so here’s a video about what to do about it:

Since so many women ask me whether or not guys care about what they look like naked, I made a video sharing how guys feel about it…check it out below:

You always hear men saying things like ‘The thing I like most on a woman is nice breasts’ or other guys will say ‘I’m more of an ass kind of guy’.

I figured there’s GOT to be a common feature about women that men love….so I thought it would be interesting to see what men pick.

I put together a fun little survey, surveying 100 men to see what feature of a woman is the most important to men. And here are some of the answers I got:

“I love a sexy pair of legs on a girl. A women with nice legs is such a turn on”

-Jeremy OH

“A woman with a nice chest always gets my attention first…I’m not going to lie, I’m a boobs guy”

-Tommy D. NY

“This might sound a little weird, but I love womens necks. It’s such a soft and sexy area.”

-Charlie AZ

Out of the 100 men who I surveyed via email (so they would be as honest as possible since they could remain anonymous), here is how the results came in:

3% Love feet
3% Love necks
3% Love long hair
15% Love nice legs
20% Love a nice bum
21% Love nice breasts

And the winner by a landslide is:

%35 a woman’s face

There you have it! The most important thing for most men, is a woman’s face.

Remember that this test is purely superficial and does not include more important things such as personality, sense of humor, etc.

Thanks to KarenJJX for the survey suggestion. If there’s anything else you want to learn about men. Keep the ideas coming!

Best regards,

Evan Michaels
Founder of Dirtytalktips.com

If you think you have a boring sex life, and you’re looking to make some changes. Good for you.

At dirty talk tips, we like to look on the bright side of things. So first of all, consider yourself lucky that you have ANY type of sex life.

Now, 40% out of 300 people I surveyed said they have a boring sex life. So it’s not uncommon.

The good news is that it’s really easy to have a great bedroom life and that’s what I’m hoping to help you with today.

Your sex life, is just like your diet. If you eat the same thing every day, you will get bored of that food (no matter how much you like it:). It’s all about variety.

The reason sex was so fun when you’re young is because it’s new and exciting, so the older you get, the more predicable it can become.

So what YOU need to do, is mix it up.

If you spend any time at all looking through our blog/articles, you’ll find lots of ideas about little things to spice it up and that’s definitely where I recommend you start. Don’t research then do everything all at once. Do a new sex move here, or a sexy post-it note there, I guarantee you there’s no shortages of those (the dirty talk handbook is loaded with those). But please pleas please, don’t settle for a boring sex life. Life is too short for that.

If you’re feeling especially wild and crazy, check out our 5 sex tips guaranteed to blow his mind!

Good luck,

Evan Michaels

When you’re meeting new people, you need to have an icebreaker.

Sometimes the usual, “Hi, my name is X” works great, but then things can suddenly cool off and the situation can quickly get awkward. Having a clever pickup line can start off the conversation with a laugh, which can often turn into a great memory later on.

I’ve put together 7 pick up lines that range from cute to corny for women to use on men.

Here they are:

You look like you are really strong. Can you help me carry this drink?

Do you want to go out for dinner sometime? You need to know I don’t kiss on the first date, at least not on the lips.

Walk up to the guy with a drink in your hand and say, “Hi, just so you know, I don’t usually drink unless I’m nervous or am about to have sex.”

Point to the guy’s lap and say, “Is this seat taken?”

Say to him “I know no one likes a tattle tale, but you are really hot.”

Go up to the guy and ask him to raise his right hand. Then tell him to say, “Swear that I am the most attractive women you have ever seen.” Then you raise your hand, and say, “I swear you have to be the most honest man I have ever met.”

What do you like on your pizza? Nod at whatever he says and then say, “What kind of women do you like on you?”

Go have some fun with them. And remember, for more information on how to talk naughty, check out our homepage.

Evan Michaels

It’s the easiest thing in the world to get dragged down by the daily grind… getting wrapped up with work problems and all those millions of things that need to get sorted out before heading off to bed at night. Sometimes the last thing you feel in the midst of all that is sexy.

But really, you don’t have to let that get in the way of your fun. Putting a smile on both your faces doesn’t need to involve a specially prepared evening, hours out of your day, or sexy lingerie. With the smallest gestures you can brighten your guy’s day beyond recognition… and in doing so make your own day far more fun and definitely more sexy.

So here are my top tips for turning any day around and putting a smile on your guy’s face:

1) Write a little note for your guy and slip it into a pocket, his work bag, in with his lunch, or any place he is likely to come across it during the day. It can be as simple as “Can’t wait to see you tonight, lover”, or something more explicit. Have fun with it! He’ll find the note sometime throughout the day and… instant smile.

2) Send him a quick series of text messages either recounting something you enjoyed in the bedroom recently, or something you want to do to him soon.

3) Grab your camera phone and take a naughty picture. (If you’re at work, just head to the lady’s washroom to take it.) It can be as explicit as you like, and don’t worry if he’s already seen that pose before. Seriously, he won’t care. Either text or email the picture straight to his phone for an awesome midday surprise.

4) When you get a moment, compose a sexy email story… a fantasy played out where the two of you are the main characters, or a shorter account of something you did (or want to do), etc – send it to him through the day to give him a little thrill. If you’re stuck for ideas, have a look around the internet for inspiration.

5) Pick a moment of the day when you know your guy can’t answer the phone and leave him a hot voicemail message. He’ll have a huge grin on his face when he checks his messages later on!

6) What preferences does your guy have? Does he love that you wear satin panties? Does he love the smell of your perfume? Do you have a small sex toy you both love using? See if you can think of something small enough to stash in his work bag where he’ll find it later on. This one might not be great for more conservative guys, but even a squirt of your perfume on a little note will do the trick.

Here’s another great tip for you… combine a few of the suggestion above to have even more fun throughout the day. For instance – write a note in the morning telling your guy you’re not wearing any panties today. Include the panties with the note in his work bag as proof. Then send him texts through the day reminding him about it, or take a suggestive picture (it doesn’t have to be too X rated Guaranteed to make him smile!

So there you have 6 really easy, quick ways to add a little spice to his life (and yours). Try them all and pay attention to what seems to get the best response… then use it whenever you think your guy might enjoy a little something sexy to get him through the day!

Evan Michaels