Learning how to give oral can make the difference between being a boring, forgettable lover …or a memorable, think-about-her-and-it-turns-me-on type of lover.

And if you’re anything like me, you want to WOW your partner in the sack and practically leave them speechless with satisfaction!

Unfortunately most women along the way either don’t realize how crazy guys go for great oral, or are too shy to ask how to give one, and neglect a very vital skill in ones sexual arsenal …the blow job.

So today I want to offer a few quick tips for those of you who give your man something he’s been hoping for his whole life.

A great blow job consists of 3 important things…

1. Unpredictable behavior

2. Occasional eye contact

3. Passion!

The predictable is boring. It just is. You know what’s coming next, and there are no surprises along the way.

If you think there is only one movement to perform while giving a blow job then you need to read this right now.  But don’t do any ONE thing for too long. Switch it up, keep him guessing. Every time will be different, which means every time will be exciting. Another important thing in this category would be the position in which you service him. Don’t always lay him down in bed and go between his legs, switch it up and do it in a chair or even standing up once and awhile. Make his day!

Eye-contact is one of the most skipped things women tend to avoid when giving a dead-sexy blow job.

Guys don’t expect to hold a stare or anything, but locking eyes for a split second every now and then reminds him he’d better enjoy this while it lasts.

Which leads right in to, passion…

If you give a passionate blow job and really sell yourself and that you LOVE satisfying your man, he will go hog-wild, I guarantee it. There is NOTHING sexier than a woman who loves what she’s doing, and if you have that attitude while making your mans day, he’s going to feel like a million bucks.

Let me explain what most women do when giving a blow job, then hopefully you can see how the above tips alone will erupt your sex life and bring out a whole new personality in your man…

Woman turns off the lights… (First wrong move! Gives want, NEED to see what’s going on)

Couple routinely undresses (as it’s Saturday night, most couples have a predictable sex schedule) and climbs under the sheets.

After a few minutes of gentle kissing and caressing the woman starts lowering her kisses down his chin, chest, and eventually makes her way to his package.

Here she holds it loosely (a good grip is great!) and slowly does what she thinks feels good.

MEANWHILE the guy is trying to think sexy thoughts so he can stay hard. It feels ok, but after a few minutes he changes the pace into sex because that blow job wasn’t going ANYWHERE. In what should only take 2-3 minutes, she managed to completely almost kill the mood.

Don’t let the above describe your sex life! Do something about it.

Hopefully you’ve enjoyed my tips above and apply them to your sex life. And if you really want to learn how to give the BEST oral, I’ve created an entire step-by-step guide that reveals EVERYTHING a guy is desperate for. Check it out here.

That’s it for today, now go have some fun!

And as always, stay sexy.

Evan Michaels
evan@dirtytalktips.com

Keeping your sex life exciting is a problem faced by couples in relationships the world over. The sexual spark often fades and intimacy can become boring, mundane, or even non-existent. Even if a couple once couldn’t keep their hands off each other, it’s common for people’s sex lives to reduce to the once-a-week-Friday-night-quickie-before-bed routine.

Reigniting that spark is an equally common problem. Couples in long-term relationships often struggle to find new ways to make sex exciting, and many long for that heart-fluttering giddy feeling they had when their relationship was new.

But now women everywhere are discovering how to recharge their sex lives by driving their partners wild in bed with mind-blowing dirty talk. Written by relationship expert, Evan Michaels, The Dirty Talk Handbook is a new book available for download from his website, www.DirtyTalkTips.com.

The book allows women to transform their sex lives by helping them build confidence in the bedroom, and discover the things men secretly crave women to say during sex.

“What sets this book apart is that it’s written by a man for women,” says Michaels. “It’s a no-holds-barred exposé of what men really want when it comes to dirty talk”

Recognizing that some women may be apprehensive about suddenly talking dirty in front of their partner, Michaels has developed a step-by-step system that helps women practice and build their confidence before they take the plunge.

“Women don’t want to sound like porn stars in bed,” says Michaels. “And nor should they. I encourage women to think about dirty talk differently — to make it a healthy part of a healthy sex life.”

“First, it’s important to increase self confidence, learn what men want to hear, and take things at your own pace. But before they know it, many women say their sex lives are way better than when they were first with their partners.”

The book features detailed tips on how to deliver sexy, natural dirty talk, as well as how to use different techniques in and out of the bedroom, such as talking, texting and e-mailing. With hundreds of examples of things to say and phrases to use, women also learn how to figure out what type of guy their partner is and what will turn him on. Advanced techniques include mastering body language, facial expressions and voice control for even more powerful dirty talk and how bedroom games and role playing can add another dimension to talking dirty.

www.DirtyTalkTips.com was founded by Evan Michaels from Vancouver, BC, Canada to help men and women learn how to spice up their sex lives in fun and exciting ways by discovering the art of talking dirty. With the help of Jess Summers, Evan has created dirty talk handbooks for each gender from the other’s point of view — each written by a member of the opposite sex. Evan is pleased to report his relationship is as exciting and sizzling as ever!

So the other day I was having a conversation with some female friends, and one woman asked “Why do guys always drool over gymnasts?”

I tried to conceal an embarrassing smile, because I knew the answer, but didn’t immediately understand how to explain my response.

“The thing is…” I explained “flexibility adds a unique dynamic in the bedroom. It allows guys to try more positions, and adds a lot of unique angles. PLUS, when we go down on a woman, there is nothing worse then being squished between two legs, cutting off our hearing *insert smile here*, so it’s very hot because we have lots of space, and can bend you to what looks great for us, and feels great for you”

This seemed to answer her question, but I wanted to address this topic a little more… because would it be weird to work on your flexibility to enhance your sex life???

No! That’s is awesome.

Remember, it takes hard work and practice to become an amazing lover. You have to learn, and you have to broaden your horizons. This blog post is just a simple reminder that yes, flexibility is very sexy to us men, and if it’s something you worked on, I can guarantee your sex life would get hotter and hotter!

Lastly, I do not think women should have to be the only ones working on things, but if you want to literally blow his mind, practice your splits!

Stay sexy.

IF you think you know exactly what men want sexually, then you NEED to read this article.

Sure men aren’t the most complicated creatures on the planet… we like meat, sports, gambling, fighting (not all of course, but most), SEX.

But just because we love sex (which is obvious) doesn’t mean that it is an easy itch to scratch, there is more to it then that.

Believe it or not men are surprisingly sensitive when it comes to sharing what they want sexually with women.

Here is what I mean…

Most guys are so grateful to get sex, they are AFRAID to tell you what they want and how they want it. Yep, it’s true.

So I’m here to tell YOU exactly what men want sexually!

First of all, guys are dominant creatures. We like to feel manly, and we like to feel strong. But most importantly, we like to feel we are doing a good job.

Men want to think they are the best most exciting partner you have ever had!!! I know it sounds stupid, but we want to feel unique  and memorable somehow… I didn’t say we are the smartest creatures!

We want to be able to throw you down, have our way (while you are impressed with our dominance) while you dirty talk, moan, and scream until a big finish. Finished off with a little bit of pillow talk talking about how amazing it was.

Sounds silly right?

EVERY single time you get together doesn’t have to be like this, but if you allow him to control the situation once and awhile, you will notice his eyes wandering less, and he will be talking about you to his work buddies a LOT more.

On top of this comes the topic of foreplay.,,

Do guys like foreplay?

Definitely!

Foreplay doesn’t always have to lead to sex either… I know that sounds strange for some of you, but a sex session can wholly be replaced by oral or other methods (use your imagination).

Guys LOVE the idea of having a quick session (sex/oral/etc.) in places out of the norm too: ie, the car, shower, beach, etc…

It doesn’t have to be a long marathon, but if you show some spontaneity and a sense of adventure you will give him more then what he wants sexually.

Hope that gives you a little more insight to the male psyche.

Until next time…

Evan Michaels

You know what’s amazing about relationships nowadays?

Technology!

Back in the day, if your husband/boyfriend goes away on a trip, you might not be able to speak with or see him for 7…21…60 days! How bad would that be?

Lucky for us being born when we were, we have all sorts of great technology that makes it easy for us to stay in touch.

Part of why people cheat and/or lose interest, is, things get boring….stale. Men often lose interest when their routine becomes predictable. And that’s EXACTLY what my site is for, to help YOU keep things fun to ensure long term satisfaction in your relationship.

So today’s quick tip is, send him a naughty pic to his phone.

Chances are, your cell phone enables you to take a picture and SMS it to him.

Take a nice seductive picture of you sucking on a lollipop, blowing a kiss, or perhaps even showing some skin (the last one will get you MAJOR points).

Now I know you’re scared of that last one…what if he shows his friends??? If he’s a good guy, he won’t. But the fact you did that will be so sexy, it will literally blow his mind!

Give it a try and watch the results you get.

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Helping you with yours,

Evan Michaels

Relationships, whether new or old can be so much fun… IF you know how to keep things new and exciting!

Here’s a tip for you out there who want to keep your man on tilt so he’s always fantasizing about you.

Take sexy pictures of yourself, and send/leave them for him when he doesn’t suspect it.

There are many different ways to do this: using your cell phone, having a normal camera with a tripod (of if you’re good at balancing it on things). But today I want to give you suggestions on what to do in the picture.

One of the biggest tools YOU have in your arsenal, is his imagination. A sexy picture doesn’t always mean nudity. Sometimes, a picture in a cute outfit, or sexy panties on the floor can get him steamed up much more then a close up of your chest (which can also work well, depending on the situation!). But be creative.

Remember, part of the WHOLE reason I created this site, was to show you how to control your relationship. And when you know how to please your man, you can use it to get what you want! I’m not suggesting that you take advantage of men in a mean way, but you can definitely use these techniques to help get what you want.

If you’re in a sexy mood, you can send him sexy pictures to set the tone for when he gets home.

If you’re in a cuddly mood, you can send him fun, relaxing pictures of candles, delicious food, or whatever you want.

If you learn how to take sexy pictures for your boyfriend, he will want to take such good care of you!

Give it a try.

Be back next week!

Evan Michaels