Learning how to give oral can make the difference between being a boring, forgettable lover …or a memorable, think-about-her-and-it-turns-me-on type of lover.

And if you’re anything like me, you want to WOW your partner in the sack and practically leave them speechless with satisfaction!

Unfortunately most women along the way either don’t realize how crazy guys go for great oral, or are too shy to ask how to give one, and neglect a very vital skill in ones sexual arsenal …the blow job.

So today I want to offer a few quick tips for those of you who give your man something he’s been hoping for his whole life.

A great blow job consists of 3 important things…

1. Unpredictable behavior

2. Occasional eye contact

3. Passion!

The predictable is boring. It just is. You know what’s coming next, and there are no surprises along the way.

If you think there is only one movement to perform while giving a blow job then you need to read this right now.  But don’t do any ONE thing for too long. Switch it up, keep him guessing. Every time will be different, which means every time will be exciting. Another important thing in this category would be the position in which you service him. Don’t always lay him down in bed and go between his legs, switch it up and do it in a chair or even standing up once and awhile. Make his day!

Eye-contact is one of the most skipped things women tend to avoid when giving a dead-sexy blow job.

Guys don’t expect to hold a stare or anything, but locking eyes for a split second every now and then reminds him he’d better enjoy this while it lasts.

Which leads right in to, passion…

If you give a passionate blow job and really sell yourself and that you LOVE satisfying your man, he will go hog-wild, I guarantee it. There is NOTHING sexier than a woman who loves what she’s doing, and if you have that attitude while making your mans day, he’s going to feel like a million bucks.

Let me explain what most women do when giving a blow job, then hopefully you can see how the above tips alone will erupt your sex life and bring out a whole new personality in your man…

Woman turns off the lights… (First wrong move! Gives want, NEED to see what’s going on)

Couple routinely undresses (as it’s Saturday night, most couples have a predictable sex schedule) and climbs under the sheets.

After a few minutes of gentle kissing and caressing the woman starts lowering her kisses down his chin, chest, and eventually makes her way to his package.

Here she holds it loosely (a good grip is great!) and slowly does what she thinks feels good.

MEANWHILE the guy is trying to think sexy thoughts so he can stay hard. It feels ok, but after a few minutes he changes the pace into sex because that blow job wasn’t going ANYWHERE. In what should only take 2-3 minutes, she managed to completely almost kill the mood.

Don’t let the above describe your sex life! Do something about it.

Hopefully you’ve enjoyed my tips above and apply them to your sex life. And if you really want to learn how to give the BEST oral, I’ve created an entire step-by-step guide that reveals EVERYTHING a guy is desperate for. Check it out here.

That’s it for today, now go have some fun!

And as always, stay sexy.

Evan Michaels
evan@dirtytalktips.com

Maybe you have a hot date tonight…

Maybe you’re having an online conversation that just took a sexy turn…

Whatever it is, you need to get good at talking dirty fast!

The problem is, when it comes to dirty talk the only thing that comes to your mind are completely over-the-top cliches that even just thinking about are make you embarrassed.

So what do you do?

Well because you ARE in a rush, I will get straight to the point.

ASQ!

That’s it, the answer to all your dirty talk problems.

Oops. Let me quickly explain…

Ask Sexy Questions

If you are EVER struggling with what to say, or your mind goes blank in the middle of a red-hot texting conversation, fire off a sexy question.

The beauty of this strategy is:

• it takes the pressure off of you to be creative and sexy on the spot
• it allows the other person to use their imagination, so if they initiated the dirty talk they’ll be having a blast answering you
• their answers give you dirty talk ammo. So once they tell you their fantasies, you will learn how to talk dirty to them after

It really is amazing how a quick question can really get the party started. Simple questions such as “What’s the sexiest date you can think of”, or for those who really want to get into it “What’s your favorite position/place to have sex” will start a chain of exciting conversational events that can keep going and going until you want it to stop.

A conversation can usually go something like this:

What’s your favorite position?

Definitely doggy-style

Mmm, me too! Why do you like it?

Because of the view, it’s sooo hott! You?

I feel so sexy and in control. Where’s the craziest place you’ve done it?

In my backyard. But I’ve always wanted to do it on the beach

Well maybe if you’re lucky it might happen. But what will you do for me?

And as you can imagine, this can keep going and going and keep getting hotter. Also, the person asking the questions revealed a fantasy of the other person (sex on the beach) which they can explore at a later time…

The trick to dirty talk is not getting too wild too soon. You must be yourself. So if you just memorize some freak-deaky lines that don’t fit your personality, it’s not going to come across sexy and honest.

Think of a couple questions that you feel comfortable with and go from there.

Hopefully this gives you some idea of how sexy it can be just to ask questions (and how quickly it can effect your sex life).

If you have any sexy questions you can think of to ask your lover during sex, over the phone, on text messages, please comment below to share with other readers.

So that’s it for today! Thanks for reading, and as always, stay sexy!

Evan Michaels

Want to drive your lover insane with desire?

Of course you do.

So here are 3 incredibly sexy dirty talk tips that will send your partner to cloud 9.

1. Smize At Their Prize

When telling your lover how bad you want to  **** them, don’t just tell them with words …use your eyes too.

Seducing your lover with your eyes while talking dirty adds a dramatic tantalizing effect. Try it out!

2. Use Their Back As A Scratching Post

As a guy, nothing lets me know I’m delivering the goods better than when I’m getting clawed at. Don’t dig too deep, but adding scratching to your sex / dirty talk will let them know they are rocking your world …and nothing gets a guy/gal hotter than knowing they are satisfying you in bed!

Guys, instead of scratching (which isn’t very manly) use your muscles to hold her in place by flexing all your muscles. It lets her know you want that awesome feeling to last.

3. Where Did That Come From

Even if a couple has been together for years or you’re on a one night stand, acting surprised (in a good way) is a super turn on.

“Omg! It feels HUGE right now”
“Wow, you feel unbelievable!”

Acting surprised/amazed when you see your partner naked, or when they stick it in is super sexy and never gets old. It gives you lots of dirty talk angles and really spices things up. Give it a shot!

Dirty talk makes sex amazing.

Start off small, practice, and in no time you will be having serious rock-star sex.

If you haven’t checked out our red-hot Dirty Talk Handbooks yet THEY WILL CHANGE YOUR SEX LIFE FOREVER! Check it out by clicking here and following the appropriate link.

If you have an old or ripped up shirt, your first instinct might be to throw it away right?

WRONG!

Put it on and have your lover rip it off during sex <- It’s fun

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Be sure to watch this video to help ensure you deliver sizzling dirty talk.

Ill give you one of the secrets to driving your lover wild…

…make them feel memorable.

This might seem like a small sentence, but it packs a punch!

Most people (whether they admit it or not) are very proud.

Everybody wants to know (or at least think) that no one else can satisfy you like them. We are naturally competitive, and that’s a good thing.

It makes it extremely easy to send your lover into a frenzy of sexual anticipation if you know what to say.

One of the key aspects of great dirty talk is compliments.

Compliments make people feel acknowledged = memorable. And when people feel proud, they are confident and in a great mood. And let’s face it, people are way more fun to be around when they are in a great mood (and the sex is way better too).

So here are some things to compliment your partner on (work this into your dirty talk):

Guys:

• his package <- a guy will NEVER get tired about hearing how big/nice his unit is. You could say this every day and he will love it ‘wow, it feels huge’
• his body <- all guys likes to be complimented. Either talk about his body, or pick something out in particular and talk about it ‘your chest is so sexy, I can’t wait to rip your shirt off’
• his skill <- does he know what he’s doing down there? Make him feel memorable and make his day ‘no one knows how to please me like you do’your sex life <- try saying ‘that was the best sex I’ve ever had’. He will immediately feel like he won something by beating out your former lovers. Trust me, he will love this.

Women:

• her looks <- a woman most likely won’t tire about hearing how beautiful/sexy she is. She will feel attractive, confident, and much more open ‘I’m a lucky guy to be able to look at you so much’
• her attitude <- acknowledge and appreciate when your woman is doing something for you. Most women don’t have the same sexual drive as men, so make them feel appreciated when they go above and beyond ‘that was awesome! I’m going to sleep well tonight ’
• her effort <- the more satisfied you are, the better she will feel about her job ‘wow, no one has ever pleased me like that before’

As you can tell, it’s not the dirty talk examples that make someone great at dirty talk. You forget examples in the bedroom …or if you do remember them, you will run out of things to say when they want more.

It’s about learning what turns your partner on and why. Once you understand what they want, you will be able to blow their socks off over and over again.

To learn ALL of the secrets behind how to drive your partner absolutely wild, click the following links:  learn how to talk dirty to men, or how to talk dirty to women.

To a great sex life!

Evan Michaels & Jess Summers

ur hot, can u show me ur tits?

nice legs, what time do they open?

can I buy you a drink, or do you just want the money?

It takes a little planning to learn how to talk dirty without being sleazy …and while the above examples of dirty talk messages / pick up lines are amusing, they will most likely make the recipient feel cheap.

The secret behind great dirty talk, is timing.

With the right timing you can crack the hardest of shells.

In order to work on your timing, you need to have a good understanding about what is going on in the minds of the recipient.

Are you dating? A new couple? Married and want to introduce a little spicy talk? Each of these scenarios will require a different approach.

For example, if you are dating and you want to have some fun texting, msging, or on the phone, you need to be clever …original. You want to be sexy without being over-bearing. At this stage in the relationship, you want to show your partner that you are fun, but, at the same time you are ready to pull the trigger and be intimate. You don’t want to get stuck in that ‘they make me laugh and that’s it’ stage.

If you are married, you might want to start things off a little slower. If you start throwing around level 5 dirty talk, your partner might wonder where you learned that and be suspicious (we’ve literally had people say this has happened!). So start easy and see how they respond. If they like it, keep cranking up the heat.

It’s all about finding out your lovers comfort level.

In the beginning, ask probing questions. It might not be jumping into the deep end right away, but it could save you from a possibly awkward situation if you start sounding sleazy too quickly.

While at the end of the dirty, talking dirty is for your amusement. Aim to please and satisfy the other person. Come across as unselfish as possible. Learn how to talk dirty without being sleazy, the reward will be worth it.

Thanks for tuning in, & stay sexy!

Jess Summers

“Tell me what you would do to me…”

One tiny little sentence can crank up the heat in any phone conversation. And the best part is, it will bring back a different answer EVERY time.

Talking sexy on the phone is fantastic, however, for couples forced to dirty talk from a distance (because of jobs or school), it can be a little awkward at first.

So today we’re going to give you some tips on how to sexy talk on the phone.

1. Have fun with it (aka – laugh at yourself)

You might feel a little ridiculous at times, but that’s normal. The goal here is to keep the romance alive. The purpose isn’t always to …”finish”, but more to get your part fantasizing about you as much as possible when they can’t be with you.

Relax, have a drink, get comfortable, and have fun!

2. Be prepared

Like anything, the more you do it and the more prepared you are, the easier it will be.

There are plenty of dirty talk examples on this site (not to mention the must-read Dirty Talk Handbook). Write a few down if you want (no one will see you!), rehearse a little, and don’t forget; asking questions is a great way to take the heat off yourself.

3. Deliver

Be confident with what you are saying, and say it with conviction.

People love to hear that they are unique or special. So when you are telling your lover about what you love about them, say it and sound excited. Even exaggerate a little “You have the nicest X I have ever seen!”.

Your voice will make the dirty talk. Don’t strain to sound sexy, just try to really believe what you are saying. If you sound honest, it will be incredibly hot.

Enjoy it.

Just the fact you have someone to talk sexy on the phone with is awesome and you are lucky. Some people would kill to have that much trust with someone from the opposite sex. So embrace it.

If you make a mistake, big whoop. Chances are your partner is just as nervous or self-conscious as you are.

That’s it for today. Now go have some fun!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

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Every guy has a cell phone nowadays, and that means being instantly accessible all the time.

That can equal fireworks in the sexiness department to any woman who wants to have some fun with her man…

As a guy let me tell you, all men love dirty talk! And all it takes to really get our imaginations running wild is a simple dirty text.

Whether we’re at work, hanging with the boys, or playing video games, there is NO wrong time to receive a sexy message.

From experience let me tell you how exciting it is when you are in a boring meeting, you look down at your phone and your lover is expressing their deepest desire for you in a dirty text, perhaps with photo evidence.

Yeow!

Everything thinks you’re in a great mood, but really it’s the red-hot text message you can’t stop thinking about!

So obviously, dirty texts can put a sizzling spark in your relationship and really make your guy go crazy for you. And the fact you don’t have to talk with someone face to face also allows you to be a little bolder with what you say.

Ok, without any further ado…

Here Are 11 Dirty Texts To Drive Your Man Wild:

“Hey tiger, I can’t stop thinking about you”

“No one can turn me on like you”

“I can’t wait to do you!”

“You have the nicest **** I have ever seen”

“Your ***** drives me wild!”

“Your body is so hot”

“I can’t stop thinking about last night”

“What do you want me to do to you later?”

“I am so horny for you right now”

“I can’t even work because I am still shaking from last night”

“You can do whatever you want to me later”

If those text messages don’t get his blood boiling, you might need to check his pulse.

Of course you can and should customize those examples to suit your guy. They are just to give you an idea of how to get started.

Down the road you can change the nicknames around, but most importantly practice as much as you can as you will get much better with experience.

Learning how to please your man will make your sex life more and more exciting every time you text each other, so congrats for taking initiative for finding out what men want. He’s a lucky guy!

To Learn more on how to satisfy your men in and outside of the bedroom, you should check out The Dirty Talk Handbook <- I’ve saved the best stuff for this It will explode your sex life!

As always, thanks for reading, and stay sexy!

Evan Michaels

p.s Don’t forget to share your favorite dirty talk examples in the comment section below.

Keeping your sex life exciting is a problem faced by couples in relationships the world over. The sexual spark often fades and intimacy can become boring, mundane, or even non-existent. Even if a couple once couldn’t keep their hands off each other, it’s common for people’s sex lives to reduce to the once-a-week-Friday-night-quickie-before-bed routine.

Reigniting that spark is an equally common problem. Couples in long-term relationships often struggle to find new ways to make sex exciting, and many long for that heart-fluttering giddy feeling they had when their relationship was new.

But now women everywhere are discovering how to recharge their sex lives by driving their partners wild in bed with mind-blowing dirty talk. Written by relationship expert, Evan Michaels, The Dirty Talk Handbook is a new book available for download from his website, www.DirtyTalkTips.com.

The book allows women to transform their sex lives by helping them build confidence in the bedroom, and discover the things men secretly crave women to say during sex.

“What sets this book apart is that it’s written by a man for women,” says Michaels. “It’s a no-holds-barred exposé of what men really want when it comes to dirty talk”

Recognizing that some women may be apprehensive about suddenly talking dirty in front of their partner, Michaels has developed a step-by-step system that helps women practice and build their confidence before they take the plunge.

“Women don’t want to sound like porn stars in bed,” says Michaels. “And nor should they. I encourage women to think about dirty talk differently — to make it a healthy part of a healthy sex life.”

“First, it’s important to increase self confidence, learn what men want to hear, and take things at your own pace. But before they know it, many women say their sex lives are way better than when they were first with their partners.”

The book features detailed tips on how to deliver sexy, natural dirty talk, as well as how to use different techniques in and out of the bedroom, such as talking, texting and e-mailing. With hundreds of examples of things to say and phrases to use, women also learn how to figure out what type of guy their partner is and what will turn him on. Advanced techniques include mastering body language, facial expressions and voice control for even more powerful dirty talk and how bedroom games and role playing can add another dimension to talking dirty.

www.DirtyTalkTips.com was founded by Evan Michaels from Vancouver, BC, Canada to help men and women learn how to spice up their sex lives in fun and exciting ways by discovering the art of talking dirty. With the help of Jess Summers, Evan has created dirty talk handbooks for each gender from the other’s point of view — each written by a member of the opposite sex. Evan is pleased to report his relationship is as exciting and sizzling as ever!