If you want to learn how to talk dirty to a girl over text, there are 3 things you need to keep in mind:

1. Don’t be cheesy
2. Don’t be degrading
3. Don’t sound desperate

Women react well to compliments and like to know they are beautiful and unique.

Don’t be cheesy. Cliche pick up lines and flattery gets old quick! While it can be fun to hear some old repeats with some well placed timing, try not to use recycled lines used in movies if you want some serious action.

Don’t be degrading. Unless you know your girl well and know for sure she’s into some freaky deaky stuff, avoid degrading her at all costs. It’s a major turn off to most women (ie: calling her a slut, whore, b*tch, etc). Don’t command her either. You can make suggestions, but telling her what to do well make her flee whenever she gets the chance. Be nice. Be romantic.

Don’t sound desperate. If you haven’t talked dirty in a long time, have little experience, or don’t know what to say …don’t tell her! Just roll with it and have fun. If you beg and act desperate, it’s going to make you look pathetic.

The key to talking to girls over texts is to be creative and making her fee like one of a kind.

Say things and ask questions that get her imagination running WILD! Help break her out of her shell and get her saying things that she’s never told anyone else. Ask her to tell you something she’s NEVER told anyone else …maybe a fantasy, a past experience, whatever.

Nothing will get your girl running hot better than some sexy text messages. So ask some naughty questions and find out what drives her wild, then make her imagination go crazy so she takes it out on YOU later on.

For a step-by-step guide that teaches you everything you need to know about how to drive girls wild over text, be sure to check out The Dirty Talk Handbook For Guys. It’ll change your life forever!

Stay Sexy,

~Jess

Maybe you have a hot date tonight…

Maybe you’re having an online conversation that just took a sexy turn…

Whatever it is, you need to get good at talking dirty fast!

The problem is, when it comes to dirty talk the only thing that comes to your mind are completely over-the-top cliches that even just thinking about are make you embarrassed.

So what do you do?

Well because you ARE in a rush, I will get straight to the point.

ASQ!

That’s it, the answer to all your dirty talk problems.

Oops. Let me quickly explain…

Ask Sexy Questions

If you are EVER struggling with what to say, or your mind goes blank in the middle of a red-hot texting conversation, fire off a sexy question.

The beauty of this strategy is:

• it takes the pressure off of you to be creative and sexy on the spot
• it allows the other person to use their imagination, so if they initiated the dirty talk they’ll be having a blast answering you
• their answers give you dirty talk ammo. So once they tell you their fantasies, you will learn how to talk dirty to them after

It really is amazing how a quick question can really get the party started. Simple questions such as “What’s the sexiest date you can think of”, or for those who really want to get into it “What’s your favorite position/place to have sex” will start a chain of exciting conversational events that can keep going and going until you want it to stop.

A conversation can usually go something like this:

What’s your favorite position?

Definitely doggy-style

Mmm, me too! Why do you like it?

Because of the view, it’s sooo hott! You?

I feel so sexy and in control. Where’s the craziest place you’ve done it?

In my backyard. But I’ve always wanted to do it on the beach

Well maybe if you’re lucky it might happen. But what will you do for me?

And as you can imagine, this can keep going and going and keep getting hotter. Also, the person asking the questions revealed a fantasy of the other person (sex on the beach) which they can explore at a later time…

The trick to dirty talk is not getting too wild too soon. You must be yourself. So if you just memorize some freak-deaky lines that don’t fit your personality, it’s not going to come across sexy and honest.

Think of a couple questions that you feel comfortable with and go from there.

Hopefully this gives you some idea of how sexy it can be just to ask questions (and how quickly it can effect your sex life).

If you have any sexy questions you can think of to ask your lover during sex, over the phone, on text messages, please comment below to share with other readers.

So that’s it for today! Thanks for reading, and as always, stay sexy!

Evan Michaels

Want to drive your lover insane with desire?

Of course you do.

So here are 3 incredibly sexy dirty talk tips that will send your partner to cloud 9.

1. Smize At Their Prize

When telling your lover how bad you want to  **** them, don’t just tell them with words …use your eyes too.

Seducing your lover with your eyes while talking dirty adds a dramatic tantalizing effect. Try it out!

2. Use Their Back As A Scratching Post

As a guy, nothing lets me know I’m delivering the goods better than when I’m getting clawed at. Don’t dig too deep, but adding scratching to your sex / dirty talk will let them know they are rocking your world …and nothing gets a guy/gal hotter than knowing they are satisfying you in bed!

Guys, instead of scratching (which isn’t very manly) use your muscles to hold her in place by flexing all your muscles. It lets her know you want that awesome feeling to last.

3. Where Did That Come From

Even if a couple has been together for years or you’re on a one night stand, acting surprised (in a good way) is a super turn on.

“Omg! It feels HUGE right now”
“Wow, you feel unbelievable!”

Acting surprised/amazed when you see your partner naked, or when they stick it in is super sexy and never gets old. It gives you lots of dirty talk angles and really spices things up. Give it a shot!

Dirty talk makes sex amazing.

Start off small, practice, and in no time you will be having serious rock-star sex.

If you haven’t checked out our red-hot Dirty Talk Handbooks yet THEY WILL CHANGE YOUR SEX LIFE FOREVER! Check it out by clicking here and following the appropriate link.

First off.

To any guy reading this …what a lucky girl.

Most guys will never learn how to talk dirty, and leave  many women sexually unsatisfied. Tragic!

You see women too love some good ol’ dirty talk.

We want to feel sexy, kinky, exotic …and have some, you know, rock star sex!!!

Here’s the thing …if you truly want to learn how to talk dirty to your girl, you’re going to have to learn some sweet ninja moves. Because a few random dirty talk phrases won’t do the trick.

Every girl is different …so if you’ve gotten down and dirty with her already, you should be able to tell what kind of girl she is:

1. She didn’t make a sound in bed
2. She had some good moans going on and a couple “oh yeahs”
3. She’s a total freak and asked you to call her a dirty b*tch

As you can imagine, each type of these girls needs you to talk dirty to them in different ways.

The first type are shy, delicate flowers who need help blossoming. Appreciate and flatter her. Tell her she is beautiful and ask her gentle engaging questions. Don’t call her a dirty b*tch

The second type covers the majority of women. Down for a good time but a little nervous and unsure of what to say back. Compliments always go a long way, but if you keep telling her she’s gorgeous, it doesn’t leave her with much to say back to you. Ask her sexy questions. Get her involved. Be descriptive. Be the boss a little, and take baby steps. Don’t go too crazy at first.

The third type of woman will eat you alive if you aren’t careful. She gets bored easily and is looking for another spitfire to throw down some SERIOUS game. Words like wh*re, b*tch, sl*t, are all fine here. It’s literally a no-holds bar match, and the more descriptive, more nasty, and more erotic you can be, the more you will satisfy her. Be careful with this one!!!!

If you like these tips and want to learn more please check out Dirty Talk Tips: What She Wants, I’ve put together all the most amazing dirty talk examples and a list of exactly how to go from dirty talk zero to hero for GUYS ONLY. It’s an amazing read and is guaranteed to ignite your sex life!

Go talk dirty to your girl and rock her world!!!!

Jess

Be sure to watch this video to help ensure you deliver sizzling dirty talk.

Ill give you one of the secrets to driving your lover wild…

…make them feel memorable.

This might seem like a small sentence, but it packs a punch!

Most people (whether they admit it or not) are very proud.

Everybody wants to know (or at least think) that no one else can satisfy you like them. We are naturally competitive, and that’s a good thing.

It makes it extremely easy to send your lover into a frenzy of sexual anticipation if you know what to say.

One of the key aspects of great dirty talk is compliments.

Compliments make people feel acknowledged = memorable. And when people feel proud, they are confident and in a great mood. And let’s face it, people are way more fun to be around when they are in a great mood (and the sex is way better too).

So here are some things to compliment your partner on (work this into your dirty talk):

Guys:

• his package <- a guy will NEVER get tired about hearing how big/nice his unit is. You could say this every day and he will love it ‘wow, it feels huge’
• his body <- all guys likes to be complimented. Either talk about his body, or pick something out in particular and talk about it ‘your chest is so sexy, I can’t wait to rip your shirt off’
• his skill <- does he know what he’s doing down there? Make him feel memorable and make his day ‘no one knows how to please me like you do’your sex life <- try saying ‘that was the best sex I’ve ever had’. He will immediately feel like he won something by beating out your former lovers. Trust me, he will love this.

Women:

• her looks <- a woman most likely won’t tire about hearing how beautiful/sexy she is. She will feel attractive, confident, and much more open ‘I’m a lucky guy to be able to look at you so much’
• her attitude <- acknowledge and appreciate when your woman is doing something for you. Most women don’t have the same sexual drive as men, so make them feel appreciated when they go above and beyond ‘that was awesome! I’m going to sleep well tonight ’
• her effort <- the more satisfied you are, the better she will feel about her job ‘wow, no one has ever pleased me like that before’

As you can tell, it’s not the dirty talk examples that make someone great at dirty talk. You forget examples in the bedroom …or if you do remember them, you will run out of things to say when they want more.

It’s about learning what turns your partner on and why. Once you understand what they want, you will be able to blow their socks off over and over again.

To learn ALL of the secrets behind how to drive your partner absolutely wild, click the following links:  learn how to talk dirty to men, or how to talk dirty to women.

To a great sex life!

Evan Michaels & Jess Summers

ur hot, can u show me ur tits?

nice legs, what time do they open?

can I buy you a drink, or do you just want the money?

It takes a little planning to learn how to talk dirty without being sleazy …and while the above examples of dirty talk messages / pick up lines are amusing, they will most likely make the recipient feel cheap.

The secret behind great dirty talk, is timing.

With the right timing you can crack the hardest of shells.

In order to work on your timing, you need to have a good understanding about what is going on in the minds of the recipient.

Are you dating? A new couple? Married and want to introduce a little spicy talk? Each of these scenarios will require a different approach.

For example, if you are dating and you want to have some fun texting, msging, or on the phone, you need to be clever …original. You want to be sexy without being over-bearing. At this stage in the relationship, you want to show your partner that you are fun, but, at the same time you are ready to pull the trigger and be intimate. You don’t want to get stuck in that ‘they make me laugh and that’s it’ stage.

If you are married, you might want to start things off a little slower. If you start throwing around level 5 dirty talk, your partner might wonder where you learned that and be suspicious (we’ve literally had people say this has happened!). So start easy and see how they respond. If they like it, keep cranking up the heat.

It’s all about finding out your lovers comfort level.

In the beginning, ask probing questions. It might not be jumping into the deep end right away, but it could save you from a possibly awkward situation if you start sounding sleazy too quickly.

While at the end of the dirty, talking dirty is for your amusement. Aim to please and satisfy the other person. Come across as unselfish as possible. Learn how to talk dirty without being sleazy, the reward will be worth it.

Thanks for tuning in, & stay sexy!

Jess Summers

“Tell me what you would do to me…”

One tiny little sentence can crank up the heat in any phone conversation. And the best part is, it will bring back a different answer EVERY time.

Talking sexy on the phone is fantastic, however, for couples forced to dirty talk from a distance (because of jobs or school), it can be a little awkward at first.

So today we’re going to give you some tips on how to sexy talk on the phone.

1. Have fun with it (aka – laugh at yourself)

You might feel a little ridiculous at times, but that’s normal. The goal here is to keep the romance alive. The purpose isn’t always to …”finish”, but more to get your part fantasizing about you as much as possible when they can’t be with you.

Relax, have a drink, get comfortable, and have fun!

2. Be prepared

Like anything, the more you do it and the more prepared you are, the easier it will be.

There are plenty of dirty talk examples on this site (not to mention the must-read Dirty Talk Handbook). Write a few down if you want (no one will see you!), rehearse a little, and don’t forget; asking questions is a great way to take the heat off yourself.

3. Deliver

Be confident with what you are saying, and say it with conviction.

People love to hear that they are unique or special. So when you are telling your lover about what you love about them, say it and sound excited. Even exaggerate a little “You have the nicest X I have ever seen!”.

Your voice will make the dirty talk. Don’t strain to sound sexy, just try to really believe what you are saying. If you sound honest, it will be incredibly hot.

Enjoy it.

Just the fact you have someone to talk sexy on the phone with is awesome and you are lucky. Some people would kill to have that much trust with someone from the opposite sex. So embrace it.

If you make a mistake, big whoop. Chances are your partner is just as nervous or self-conscious as you are.

That’s it for today. Now go have some fun!

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

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It scares me sometimes how little men know about how to please women.

We are not like you!

Our bodies don’t work like yours. We don’t get turned on by the same things. The advice your buddy who gets chicks gives you is not good advice!

I’m sorry boys, I don’t want to make you think you are that bad… because flip things around vice versa and it’s the exact same. That’s why our site is so great! And that’s what I’m going to talk about today…

I am going to give you a few tips about talking dirty to your girl that will make your sex life a little sexier.

1. Appreciate

If you want to make her hot and bothered, appreciate different things about her. Don’t always go for “your ass is so hot” “you have awesome tits” … talk about her legs …her neck … her skin …her face (even more spefically: lips, eyes, etc…).

Also, if there is something about her she is self conscious about, embrace it and tell her you love it. Tell her it’s your favorite one you’ve EVER seen!

2.Don’t go overboard!

The thing with dirty talk is, every woman is different. Some like it nasty. Some like it sweet. It’s up to YOU to figure out what kind of girl she is.

If she’s a sweet girl, DO NOT CALL HER A DIRTY WHORE. I don’t care what your buddies think, MOST woman don’t like that …but there are a few who do. So be careful.

On the flip side, if she’s a nasty girl and you say “Your little tushy is so cute” she might think Is this guy for real??

Start off slow and gain momentum as you go.

3. Don’t be bossy

Being controlled can be very sexy. It’s hot when a guy knows what he wants and takes it.

Thennnnn there’s being bossy. “[verb] my [noun] right now”

How about No?

Don’t be commanding in bed. Every little piece of dialogue counts as dirty talk, and if you are telling your woman what to do, and she doesn’t get much of a say, don’t expect to be getting too much sex in the future.

Well that’s it for today. A few tips for talking dirty to your girl. Give them a try, and don’t forget to comment below with your best tips/advice for everyone else out there.

Keep things spicy,

-Jess Summers

You love some steamy dirty talk. It turns you on, get’s you going …there’s nothing hotter.

HOWEVER, your partner is painfully shy, and quiet as a mouse.

What do you do?

Do you tell them you love dirty talk and risk completely embarrassing them by putting them on the spot?

OR

Do you keep your mouth shut and live out your fantasies in your head?

The answer is, you get them involved very subtly.

From the research we’ve done over the last 3 years, we’ve found that most people who are awkwardly silent in bed don’t dislike dirty talk, they just honestly feel they have NO idea what to say.

This is where you come in…

The best chance you have to involve a usually quiet partner in the bedroom is, to ask engaging questions. But it is extremely important you start slow.

Ask them simple yes or no questions in the beginning …things like:

“Does that feel good?”

“Do you like it when I do that”

Then start evolving your questions so they could give you answers where they have to actually think:

“Where do you want me to …”"

“What is your favorite …”

Over time they will begin to feel comfortable with you, and once that happens, so will their confidence.

At the end of the day, without great communication between you and your lover, you will get nowhere in a relationship. All of the best sex and most fun comes from being comfortable enough to explore everything together. So if something is really important to you such as dirty talk. Talk about it!

If you never say or do anything you will miss out on TONS of fun.

Thanks for tuning in.

Stay sexy!

Evan Michaels