These are some of the emails we get from people all over the world.
From: Celina **** <luv_like_*******@hotmail.com>
To: evan@dirtytalktips.com
Hey,
I found your website because I’ve been trying to figure out how to talk dirty to my boyfriend without sounding too.. awkward?
I’m really shy when it comes to something like this, and im also VERY shy about my body.
The fact that I’m so shy when it comes to talking dirty, and about my body, my boyfriend and I don’t really get too far before I, well, freeze up.
Any tips on how to fix my shyness over my body and talking dirty?
Also, what are a few really good things to say to my boyfriend that will surely leave him asking for more?
From: Evan Michaels <evan@dirtytalktips.com>
To: Celina **** <luv_like_*******@hotmail.com>
Sent: Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:22:14 AM
Subject: Re:
Hi Celina,
It’s very common for people to find it hard to bust out of their shell.
Why are you shy about your body? Usually it’s because people lack confidence. But why? Maybe their afraid of rejection, that their partner is going to find out something or be disgusted and leave?
Well let me tell you, that NEVER happens. And trust me, he’s just as nervous and self conscious as you are.
Ok, now that’s out of the way, it’s time to have some fun, because that’s what it’s all about!
First off, my blog has a lot of free stuff, some good examples of things to say as well as some insight on males behavior, so check it out. Also, if you haven’t tried out my course, it will walk you through EVERYTHING you’re worrying about. So I would recommend you get a copy because it will change that part of your life.
But to answer your question, just start off slow with your body and the dirty talk. Remind yourself there’s no reason to be shy, and remind yourself how exhilarating it is being able to share intimate moments with someone. Use little things that make him feel manly “C’mere tiger!”, or “Get over here you big stuff!”, that will make him smile and boost his confidence.
If you want to leave him asking for more you might want to get comfortable first with the small stuff before you start saying the stuff that he fantasizes about. One step at a time.
Hope this helps! Let me know
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Evan Michaels
Dirtytalktips.com
evan@dirtytalktips.com
From: Amanda ***** <af*****@yahoo.com>
To: Evan@DirtyTalkTips.com
Subject: I messed up!
Evan,
Please help. I am new to dirty talk and my guy likes sex-ting because he works out of state. We were sharing fantasies and I shared one about a friend of his, and him, and he flipped. I dint really want to touch anybody but him. That’s why it is just a fantasy, right? We are okay now, but how do I restore his confidence so he doesn’t think I’m thinking about somebody else when I’m with him. How do I restore mine too because now I don’t want to tell him any thing. I hope you can help. I can’t wait to get your book!
From: Evan Michaels <evan@dirtytalktips.com>
To: Amanda ***** <af*****@yahoo.com>
Sent: Friday, June 19, 2009 11:49:38 AM
Subject: Re: I messed up!
Hi Amanda,
For some guys, that’s one of the worst things they can hear. It makes it sound like you are more attracted to that other person then you are with him, making him feel inferior and anti-studly if that’s a word.
What you have to do is slowly restore his confidence over time, by making subtle comments along the way about how much you’re attracted to him. About his body (nobody holds me like you do), about his kisses or his …… (you have the nicest …. I’ve ever seen). It will take time but he’ll come around.
In the future, try and avoid mentioning other guys…I know this sounds bad but a lot of times we can’t share all of our true fantasies with our partner.
Don’t worry to much about it. If he brings it up again, he has the confidence problem, not you. You can just let him know you weren’t really serious and am more then happy with him.
Let me know how it goes and if that helps!
Have a great weekend.
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Evan Michaels
Dirtytalktips.com
evan@dirtytalktips.com
From: Amanda ***** <af*****@yahoo.com>
To: Evan Michaels <evan@dirtytalktips.com>
Subject: Re: I messed up!
Dear Evan,
Thank you soooo much. I have started to do what you said and already he seems better. Thank you sooo much!
Amanda
From: kayleigh ****** <xoxka******@hotmail.com>
To: evan@dirtytalktips.com
Sent: Thursday, April 30, 2009 4:35:37 PM
Subject: I Need you help..
Im So Sorry To SO This.. But I Have A Little Problem..
You Seem To Know Alot About Men, So I Thought If i Contacted You About This You Wouldn’t Mind, Cause I Dont Really Have Anyone To Talk About This To…
Ive Had Alot Of Bad Experance With Men.. But Just Under A Year Ago, I Meet This Great Guy, We Started Dating.. But I have Never been Comfortable With Sex.. I Just Cant Seen To Move Right..? I Dont Know Why This Is Happening.. Ive Tried Talking to him About It But He Always Take It Personally, And Thinks Id Rather Be With My Exs, But I Dont, And Even With Them, I Cuuldnt Move Right or fast enough..If You Know What I mean..
So MY Boyfriend Is Coming Home This Weekend, And Is Taking To A Hotel, He Wants Me To Dress Up, Talk Dirty, Role Play And All that But I really Dont Think I Can Do It.. So Started Looking On The Internet Today, And Came Across Your Website Today..
Please Help Me.. And If You Can Contact Me Asap..
Thanks..xx
From: Evan Michaels <evan@dirtytalktips.com>
To: kayleigh ****** <xoxka******@hotmail.com>
Subject: Re: I Need you help..
Hi Kayleigh,
First off I wanted to congratulate you. The very fact that you emailed me shows that you want to improve your skills, so he is a lucky guy.
You need to improve your confidence. It usually comes from experience, but it does help if you know what you are doing. Why are you so upset about sex? Are you worried that you are not good at it? EVERY woman has those same fears, but I have a feeling you are over thinking it. You are probably much better then you give yourself credit for…because trust me, its not that hard to please a man. 
Study movies or actresses that are known for their sexuality! Watch what they do, how they act, how they move their body, and emulate it. You’ll feel sexy and confident in no time. Read the information in our blog/articles section, and PRACTICE it in the mirror. It might seem weird, but it will help, trust me.
Good luck,
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Evan Michaels
Dirtytalktips.com
evan@dirtytalktips.com
