Today we want to cover 5 CRUCIAL dirty talk mistakes people make, so you can avoid the embarrassment of what goes along with them. These 5 mistakes don’t just apply to the bedroom but with dirty talk in general.
1. Too Much Too Soon
When you’re new at dirty talk the biggest mistake you can make is trying to memorize a bunch of phrases, then unloading them all at once.
Start off slow. Remember that the whole point of dirty talk is you’re basically communicating that you are enjoying what’s going on and want to make it better. There’s a way to grow and still be yourself, and the secret is to start off slow. Put more emphasis on moaning, and little ‘Oh Yas’, then when you’re comfortable with that, start busting out the kinky sentences!
2. Pet Names
Pet names are NOT associated with arousal.
Using them while having some intimate pillow talk after, that’s fine, HOWEVER when you’re trying have intense intimacy with your partner, and you say “snuggy-wuggums” there’s a good chance you will experience a major sexual roadblock.
Go here for a good list of guys nicknames that will turn him on!
3. Being TOO Creative
When you’re in the heat of the moment, and you’re trying to be creative, prepare for a catastrophe!
If you’ve ever seen that Sex and the City episode where Miranda tries to think on the spot, her encounter is ended IMMEDIATELY because she tries to be creative.
Start off slow and stick to the basics!
4. Improper Use of Eye Contact
The whole point of dirty talk, is getting one another worked up!
It’s about igniting a sexual chemistry between two people that adds so much more emphasis on what feels good, and makes it feel unbelievable!
Avoid looking away, closing your eyes, looking down like you’re unsure….chances are most of the time you won’t be looking in each others face, but when you do, a sexy, confident stare can be the difference between an o and an OOOOOOOHHHHH.
5. Talk About Your Ex
This mistake doesn’t just include sex, it just is in general.
Everyone has baggage, and that’s fine. You wouldn’t be who you are today without your past. But your man/woman does NOT want to hear about it.
Whether it’s things you did sexually, or telling stories with that person…avoid using your ex’s names, and do your best not to sound happy about those memories.
Obviously recounting sexual tales about your ex’s is strictly forbidden! Don’t ever go there, especially comparing past lovers.
Avoid making those 5 mistakes, and you should be well on your way to having an AMAZING sex life!
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Good luck!
Evan Michaels
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