Dirty talk is the ability to communicate your likes, dislikes and desires towards your partner… in the heat of the moment.
It allows you to express that you’re fun and comfortable in an intimate atmosphere.
The sad thing is some people STILL think it’s bad to be good at sex. But why? Sex is a privilege that needs to be explored so it can be enjoyable fully between two people. What an awesome experience it is to share with someone! And it can be made even better.
Think of this, you’re fooling around with someone for 20-30 minutes and nobody says anything or even makes a sound… how boring would that be? You’d be constantly questioning as to whether or not you’re doing a good job. EVEN little things like mmmm’s and ahhhh’s, or moaning and responding to actions are ALL forms of dirty talk… and mastering that ability changes your sex life leaps and bounds.
The problem that happens to most men and women is this: they decide for one reason or another to search online to learn some dirty talk examples. They find a couple phrases online and decide to give them a try. One of two things happens:
1. He/She tries the dirty talk with someone, and it goes wrong. The dirty talkee either laughs and stops completely cold, or the situation gets terribly awkward
2. He/She tries the dirty talk and it works, then the other person wants more and the dirty talker has no clue what else to say and freezes up
People email me all the time because these things have happened, and that’s why I have spent the last few years of my life working on and perfecting a system to avoid the above two scenarios and embrace them!
Let’s be real… to be good at something, anything, you need to practice. You need to research, and you need to put in effort. It’s taken me a long time to do all the research I have, and that’s why I put it together in a single place and made it fun to read… so people like you don’t have to take years to figure it out. Yes you can read all sorts of free tips on my website, but those tips aren’t going to do you any good unless you understand EVERYTHING in the dirty talk handbooks beforehand.
Evan Michaels
