Learning how to give oral can make the difference between being a boring, forgettable lover …or a memorable, think-about-her-and-it-turns-me-on type of lover.

And if you’re anything like me, you want to WOW your partner in the sack and practically leave them speechless with satisfaction!

Unfortunately most women along the way either don’t realize how crazy guys go for great oral, or are too shy to ask how to give one, and neglect a very vital skill in ones sexual arsenal …the blow job.

So today I want to offer a few quick tips for those of you who give your man something he’s been hoping for his whole life.

A great blow job consists of 3 important things…

1. Unpredictable behavior

2. Occasional eye contact

3. Passion!

The predictable is boring. It just is. You know what’s coming next, and there are no surprises along the way.

If you think there is only one movement to perform while giving a blow job then you need to read this right now.  But don’t do any ONE thing for too long. Switch it up, keep him guessing. Every time will be different, which means every time will be exciting. Another important thing in this category would be the position in which you service him. Don’t always lay him down in bed and go between his legs, switch it up and do it in a chair or even standing up once and awhile. Make his day!

Eye-contact is one of the most skipped things women tend to avoid when giving a dead-sexy blow job.

Guys don’t expect to hold a stare or anything, but locking eyes for a split second every now and then reminds him he’d better enjoy this while it lasts.

Which leads right in to, passion…

If you give a passionate blow job and really sell yourself and that you LOVE satisfying your man, he will go hog-wild, I guarantee it. There is NOTHING sexier than a woman who loves what she’s doing, and if you have that attitude while making your mans day, he’s going to feel like a million bucks.

Let me explain what most women do when giving a blow job, then hopefully you can see how the above tips alone will erupt your sex life and bring out a whole new personality in your man…

Woman turns off the lights… (First wrong move! Gives want, NEED to see what’s going on)

Couple routinely undresses (as it’s Saturday night, most couples have a predictable sex schedule) and climbs under the sheets.

After a few minutes of gentle kissing and caressing the woman starts lowering her kisses down his chin, chest, and eventually makes her way to his package.

Here she holds it loosely (a good grip is great!) and slowly does what she thinks feels good.

MEANWHILE the guy is trying to think sexy thoughts so he can stay hard. It feels ok, but after a few minutes he changes the pace into sex because that blow job wasn’t going ANYWHERE. In what should only take 2-3 minutes, she managed to completely almost kill the mood.

Don’t let the above describe your sex life! Do something about it.

Hopefully you’ve enjoyed my tips above and apply them to your sex life. And if you really want to learn how to give the BEST oral, I’ve created an entire step-by-step guide that reveals EVERYTHING a guy is desperate for. Check it out here.

That’s it for today, now go have some fun!

And as always, stay sexy.

Evan Michaels
evan@dirtytalktips.com

If you want to learn how to talk dirty to a girl over text, there are 3 things you need to keep in mind:

1. Don’t be cheesy
2. Don’t be degrading
3. Don’t sound desperate

Women react well to compliments and like to know they are beautiful and unique.

Don’t be cheesy. Cliche pick up lines and flattery gets old quick! While it can be fun to hear some old repeats with some well placed timing, try not to use recycled lines used in movies if you want some serious action.

Don’t be degrading. Unless you know your girl well and know for sure she’s into some freaky deaky stuff, avoid degrading her at all costs. It’s a major turn off to most women (ie: calling her a slut, whore, b*tch, etc). Don’t command her either. You can make suggestions, but telling her what to do well make her flee whenever she gets the chance. Be nice. Be romantic.

Don’t sound desperate. If you haven’t talked dirty in a long time, have little experience, or don’t know what to say …don’t tell her! Just roll with it and have fun. If you beg and act desperate, it’s going to make you look pathetic.

The key to talking to girls over texts is to be creative and making her fee like one of a kind.

Say things and ask questions that get her imagination running WILD! Help break her out of her shell and get her saying things that she’s never told anyone else. Ask her to tell you something she’s NEVER told anyone else …maybe a fantasy, a past experience, whatever.

Nothing will get your girl running hot better than some sexy text messages. So ask some naughty questions and find out what drives her wild, then make her imagination go crazy so she takes it out on YOU later on.

For a step-by-step guide that teaches you everything you need to know about how to drive girls wild over text, be sure to check out The Dirty Talk Handbook For Guys. It’ll change your life forever!

Stay Sexy,

~Jess

If you want to learn how to have hot sex,  you must:

• be brave
• be adventurous
• be spontaneous

Hot sex has a lot to do with attraction, imagination, and energy…

It should NOT be intimate. It should not be slow and lovey dovey. It’s about passion, pleasure, and sweat

Hot sex is all about action and no delay. The last thing you want to do is hesitate or hum and haw over what to do next.

Power and knowing what you want is sexy. Take charge, and commit. Don’t over-think and do what feels good.

Asides from spontaneity, there’s two things I highly recommend for red-hot sex every time:

1. Dirty Talk

2. Role-Playing

Dirty talk is the difference between boring, predictable sex …and satisfy your partner like never before sex. It makes for exciting, memorable sex sessions over and over again. And the more you do it, the better you get. I wrote amazing products covering dirty talk in great detail because it has such a HUGE impact on your sex life. So if you haven’t checked them out already, you’re missing out!

Role-Playing always makes for hot-sex. The best part about it, is because you’re “acting”, you’re basically free to say whatever you want without feeling guilty. If you’re a generally shy person, you get to act like someone else which might help bring you out of your shell. It gives you so many scenarios to use dirty talk in, it ties in nicely together.

If you want to learn how to have hot sex every time, master these two things, and you will be bragging about your sex life every chance you get.

For more information on the extremely popular Dirty Talk Handbooks click the links below:

How to talk dirty to men

How to talk dirty to women

Stay sexy,

Evan Michaels

So you want to talk dirty but are worried you’re going to embarrass yourself.

Does that sound about right?

Well if so you’re not alone.

Out of the thousands of people that visit our website every month, the majority of people avoid talking dirty at the risk of sounding foolish.

Most people really have no idea what to say, especially when they are with someone who obviously wants to talk dirty (or experienced talking dirty). You know your partner wants it, and you want to give it to them, but you are drawing a complete blank. And worst of all, the longer you delay, the harder it gets.

If you’ve felt the stone-cold embarrassment of not knowing how to talk dirty, worry no more! Because I’m about to give you some helpful tips about how you can learn to talk dirty without feeling like a fool…

Tip # 1 – Relax.

What’s the worst that could happen, a break-up? I doubt it…

If someone is talking dirty to you, they like you. And they’re probably not going to stop liking you. They like you asides from the fact you may or may not talk dirty. So first of all, don’t worry it. It’s about fun and that’s it!

Tip #2 – Oohhs and Ahhhs count.

If you don’t know what to say, that’s fine. Moaning and Mmmming counts too.

Body language and eye contact are also ways to acknowledge your partner, because really that’s what dirty talk is in it’s most basic form, acknowledgement. Without words you can let your partner know what feels good, what doesn’t feel good,   that you’re attracted to them, plus much, much more.

Tip #3 – Ask questions.

More often than not, one person says they want the other to talk dirty, so the other person is left not really knowing what to say.

This is actually a really easy thing to deal with, and the answer is to ask questions!

People who enjoy dirty talk have active imaginations. And the best way to get them excited is to get them talking.

Ask what they want …what they like …how they want it….

It’s an easy way to deflect the pressure on you and pass it back on to them. Plus it will give you many ideas as to what kind of things turn them on.

If you ask them what they want you to do to them they are giving you a peak behind the curtains as to what their fantasies are. So in the future, you can do this to them without asking and satisfy them more than anyone else ever could.

Life is too short to have boring sex. If you haven’t had fun talking dirty yet, what are you waiting for?

For detailed instructions on exactly what to do and say, visit > how to talk dirty today.

Maybe you have a hot date tonight…

Maybe you’re having an online conversation that just took a sexy turn…

Whatever it is, you need to get good at talking dirty fast!

The problem is, when it comes to dirty talk the only thing that comes to your mind are completely over-the-top cliches that even just thinking about are make you embarrassed.

So what do you do?

Well because you ARE in a rush, I will get straight to the point.

ASQ!

That’s it, the answer to all your dirty talk problems.

Oops. Let me quickly explain…

Ask Sexy Questions

If you are EVER struggling with what to say, or your mind goes blank in the middle of a red-hot texting conversation, fire off a sexy question.

The beauty of this strategy is:

• it takes the pressure off of you to be creative and sexy on the spot
• it allows the other person to use their imagination, so if they initiated the dirty talk they’ll be having a blast answering you
• their answers give you dirty talk ammo. So once they tell you their fantasies, you will learn how to talk dirty to them after

It really is amazing how a quick question can really get the party started. Simple questions such as “What’s the sexiest date you can think of”, or for those who really want to get into it “What’s your favorite position/place to have sex” will start a chain of exciting conversational events that can keep going and going until you want it to stop.

A conversation can usually go something like this:

What’s your favorite position?

Definitely doggy-style

Mmm, me too! Why do you like it?

Because of the view, it’s sooo hott! You?

I feel so sexy and in control. Where’s the craziest place you’ve done it?

In my backyard. But I’ve always wanted to do it on the beach

Well maybe if you’re lucky it might happen. But what will you do for me?

And as you can imagine, this can keep going and going and keep getting hotter. Also, the person asking the questions revealed a fantasy of the other person (sex on the beach) which they can explore at a later time…

The trick to dirty talk is not getting too wild too soon. You must be yourself. So if you just memorize some freak-deaky lines that don’t fit your personality, it’s not going to come across sexy and honest.

Think of a couple questions that you feel comfortable with and go from there.

Hopefully this gives you some idea of how sexy it can be just to ask questions (and how quickly it can effect your sex life).

If you have any sexy questions you can think of to ask your lover during sex, over the phone, on text messages, please comment below to share with other readers.

So that’s it for today! Thanks for reading, and as always, stay sexy!

Evan Michaels

Want to drive your lover insane with desire?

Of course you do.

So here are 3 incredibly sexy dirty talk tips that will send your partner to cloud 9.

1. Smize At Their Prize

When telling your lover how bad you want to  **** them, don’t just tell them with words …use your eyes too.

Seducing your lover with your eyes while talking dirty adds a dramatic tantalizing effect. Try it out!

2. Use Their Back As A Scratching Post

As a guy, nothing lets me know I’m delivering the goods better than when I’m getting clawed at. Don’t dig too deep, but adding scratching to your sex / dirty talk will let them know they are rocking your world …and nothing gets a guy/gal hotter than knowing they are satisfying you in bed!

Guys, instead of scratching (which isn’t very manly) use your muscles to hold her in place by flexing all your muscles. It lets her know you want that awesome feeling to last.

3. Where Did That Come From

Even if a couple has been together for years or you’re on a one night stand, acting surprised (in a good way) is a super turn on.

“Omg! It feels HUGE right now”
“Wow, you feel unbelievable!”

Acting surprised/amazed when you see your partner naked, or when they stick it in is super sexy and never gets old. It gives you lots of dirty talk angles and really spices things up. Give it a shot!

Dirty talk makes sex amazing.

Start off small, practice, and in no time you will be having serious rock-star sex.

If you haven’t checked out our red-hot Dirty Talk Handbooks yet THEY WILL CHANGE YOUR SEX LIFE FOREVER! Check it out by clicking here and following the appropriate link.

There’s no question dirty talk gets the party started, especially in the bedroom. But is there a point where you can go too far with what you say?

Well yes …definitely. But the threshold is different for everyone. And it’s important you realize – especially IF you want to get better at dirty talk – where that line is so you don’t cross it.

The whole goal of becoming great at dirty talk is to find out what kind of dirty talk turns your partner on. Because let’s face it, if a guy calls his girl a dirty whore during sex when she’s not that kind of girl, he is going to be in a world of trouble!

GENERALLY, there are 3 types of people:

1. The Freaks – these are the sex-crazed people who love to get down whenever, wherever! Nothing offends them. They are downright nasty and will eat you up in bed. You will know when you are with a freak!

2. The Normies – the majority or people fall into this category. These are usually people with a healthy sexual appetite and a willingness to explore. They get offended with over-the-top dirty talk, but get bored with a silent partner or ‘virgin’ sex.

3. The Meeks – usually due to an underexposure of sexual exploration in their teens/twenties, these people are extremely shy when it comes to anything intimate. They relate most things that feels good to being bad, and have a hard time expanding their mind and breaking out of their shell.

Remember these are just general guidelines. But the point is, IF you are just ready to explode with raunchy dirty talk and take it in to overdrive, make sure you properly categorize your partner into one of the above groups so you know whether or not they will be loving your new dirty talk, or be bailing for the door.

Here are a few dirty talk topics that might pop in your head and the proper group they fall into:

Degrading

Who likes it: The Freaks

Out of all the things you can say during dirty talk this is the one you have to be the most careful with. Some people love to be degraded during sex. They love to feel overpowered and have someone else put them in their place.

It’s really worth having a conversation over drinks beforehand about what each other gets off on, because if you call your lover (man OR woman) a filthy bitch during sex, it could be a relationship ender if you’re not careful.

If you are new in your relationship, it is not recommended you find out whether or not your partner likes being degraded during sex.

Swearing

Who likes it: The Freaks & The Normies

Swearing IF not used too often, can add a powerful impact to your dirty talk.

If your partner who rarely swears or is quite shy suddenly reveals “Tonight I’m going to f*ck your brains out.” that changes gears completely!

The problem with swearing is,  it’s often crude and sounds overly aggressive …and for The Normies, might be crossing the line if used often. If you’re a freak (or dating one) it’s hard to cross the line, but choose your words carefully if you’re with a Normie. Start off slow, and build up and experiment more and more over time.

Avoid swearing if you want the situation to be romantic. Use swearing if you want to get down and get nasty.

Teasing

Who likes it: Everybody

Some of the most fun you can have in the bedroom comes from teasing. Not about personal faults of course, I’m talking about teasing them sexually, with the pleasure they are about to experience.

If your partner is getting near an orgasm, and you slow down and ask them how bad they want it, or if they’re ready to explode all over you, this heightens their senses and makes them more aware of what’s about to happen. It sends them in to overdrive!

If done playfully, teasing can be extremely exciting. HOWEVER, if misused can cause complete frustration and annoyance.

Like any good dirty talk, start off slow and build up over time.

Is Explicit Dirty Talk For Everyone?

The short answer is no.

Dirty talk is about activating your imagination during sex. It’s about exploring your boundaries with your lover and finding out what gets you both off.

What you may realize while reading this article is well I’m a freak but my partner is a normie. If that’s the case it’s ok, but you will have to do some serious soul-searching and find out whether Normie dirty talk while keep you happy over time. Your normie partner will likely get offended at some point with what you say or once they realize what gets you off. But you can make it work.

The goal is to get your partner more hot and bothered than ever before. Take the time to figure out what kind of person they are. Once you’ve found that out, explore with some light dirty talk, and increase the intensity over time. Eventually you will find a level that excites both of you, and that translates into INCREDIBLE sex EVERY time!

Thanks for reading,

Stay sexy,

Learn How To Deliver Irresistible Dirty Talk Here!

If you have an old or ripped up shirt, your first instinct might be to throw it away right?

WRONG!

Put it on and have your lover rip it off during sex <- It’s fun

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Explode Your Dirty Talk With This Red-Hot Tip

First off.

To any guy reading this …what a lucky girl.

Most guys will never learn how to talk dirty, and leave  many women sexually unsatisfied. Tragic!

You see women too love some good ol’ dirty talk.

We want to feel sexy, kinky, exotic …and have some, you know, rock star sex!!!

Here’s the thing …if you truly want to learn how to talk dirty to your girl, you’re going to have to learn some sweet ninja moves. Because a few random dirty talk phrases won’t do the trick.

Every girl is different …so if you’ve gotten down and dirty with her already, you should be able to tell what kind of girl she is:

1. She didn’t make a sound in bed
2. She had some good moans going on and a couple “oh yeahs”
3. She’s a total freak and asked you to call her a dirty b*tch

As you can imagine, each type of these girls needs you to talk dirty to them in different ways.

The first type are shy, delicate flowers who need help blossoming. Appreciate and flatter her. Tell her she is beautiful and ask her gentle engaging questions. Don’t call her a dirty b*tch

The second type covers the majority of women. Down for a good time but a little nervous and unsure of what to say back. Compliments always go a long way, but if you keep telling her she’s gorgeous, it doesn’t leave her with much to say back to you. Ask her sexy questions. Get her involved. Be descriptive. Be the boss a little, and take baby steps. Don’t go too crazy at first.

The third type of woman will eat you alive if you aren’t careful. She gets bored easily and is looking for another spitfire to throw down some SERIOUS game. Words like wh*re, b*tch, sl*t, are all fine here. It’s literally a no-holds bar match, and the more descriptive, more nasty, and more erotic you can be, the more you will satisfy her. Be careful with this one!!!!

If you like these tips and want to learn more please check out Dirty Talk Tips: What She Wants, I’ve put together all the most amazing dirty talk examples and a list of exactly how to go from dirty talk zero to hero for GUYS ONLY. It’s an amazing read and is guaranteed to ignite your sex life!

Go talk dirty to your girl and rock her world!!!!

Jess