Long past are the days when a woman would wait around for Mr. Right to ask her out so they can live together happily ever after.
The reality is, if women don’t learn how to get attention from the types of men they are interested in, it is likely they will get hit on by the wrong kind of guys (if any), and will have a hard time finding a satisfying long-term relationship.
My name is Evan Michaels, and I have helped tens of thousands of women peek into the minds of men for a backstage pass into what they are thinking. Many women email me asking for advice on how to attract men, so today I want to give some quick advice as to how to become irresistible to men.
If you want to meet nice guys who aren’t looking for a one night stand…
Be fun, be simple.
Most guys hate drama. All we want is to be around someone fun, who doesn’t worry about the little things.
Many women worry too much. Worry about what the guy will think, and create all of these ‘what if’ scenarios in her brain that cause doubt and fear.
If you are with a friend, shoot some pool, play some darts, or just talk.
But whatever you are doing, have a good time, and be in a good mood.
If you make eye contact with the guy you are interested in, flash him a nice inviting smile, and slowly drag your eyes back to what you were doing, hinting you want him to come over.
Remember, guys do NOT want to hit on women that look stuck up or are intimidating. So don’t act too cool for school.
A really fun ice-breaker once he does approach, is instantly get the conversation going with a game. Quickly introduce yourself once he has, and say ‘so my friend and I are trying to guess the jobs of people just by looking at them. I’m convinced that that girl works at the zoo. He is a masseuse… what do you think he does’ while pointing to a stranger, and see what he says back.
This starts off the conversation in a great way that takes the pressure off of initial conversation, and the BEST part is about it …if there are any awkward moments in the conversation, you can always go back to it ‘so what about that guy, what do you think he does?’
You don’t have to use the job scenario, you can do whatever you want. But this little game does a number of things.
First, it is a screening process for you. Depending on the little game you play, if his answers aren’t what you hoped they were and you can instantly tell he’s not the kind of guy you are interested in, you can quietly excuse yourself and get back to your friend.
But second, it’s fun. Instantly you have been much more exciting than whatever else that guy has been doing, and he’s going to want to be around you, let alone probably offer to buy you a drink. Remember, it takes guts for guys to approach women.
So if you can make it easy for the kind of guys you want to hit on you, that attitude is going to make you irresistible to men!
Give it a try! Go and have some fun tonight.