So you want to talk dirty but are worried you’re going to embarrass yourself.
Does that sound about right?
Well if so you’re not alone.
Out of the thousands of people that visit our website every month, the majority of people avoid talking dirty at the risk of sounding foolish.
Most people really have no idea what to say, especially when they are with someone who obviously wants to talk dirty (or experienced talking dirty). You know your partner wants it, and you want to give it to them, but you are drawing a complete blank. And worst of all, the longer you delay, the harder it gets.
If you’ve felt the stone-cold embarrassment of not knowing how to talk dirty, worry no more! Because I’m about to give you some helpful tips about how you can learn to talk dirty without feeling like a fool…
Tip # 1 – Relax.
What’s the worst that could happen, a break-up? I doubt it…
If someone is talking dirty to you, they like you. And they’re probably not going to stop liking you. They like you asides from the fact you may or may not talk dirty. So first of all, don’t worry it. It’s about fun and that’s it!
Tip #2 – Oohhs and Ahhhs count.
If you don’t know what to say, that’s fine. Moaning and Mmmming counts too.
Body language and eye contact are also ways to acknowledge your partner, because really that’s what dirty talk is in it’s most basic form, acknowledgement. Without words you can let your partner know what feels good, what doesn’t feel good, that you’re attracted to them, plus much, much more.
Tip #3 – Ask questions.
More often than not, one person says they want the other to talk dirty, so the other person is left not really knowing what to say.
This is actually a really easy thing to deal with, and the answer is to ask questions!
People who enjoy dirty talk have active imaginations. And the best way to get them excited is to get them talking.
Ask what they want …what they like …how they want it….
It’s an easy way to deflect the pressure on you and pass it back on to them. Plus it will give you many ideas as to what kind of things turn them on.
If you ask them what they want you to do to them they are giving you a peak behind the curtains as to what their fantasies are. So in the future, you can do this to them without asking and satisfy them more than anyone else ever could.
Life is too short to have boring sex. If you haven’t had fun talking dirty yet, what are you waiting for?
For detailed instructions on exactly what to do and say, visit > how to talk dirty today.