“Tell me what you would do to me…”
One tiny little sentence can crank up the heat in any phone conversation. And the best part is, it will bring back a different answer EVERY time.
Talking sexy on the phone is fantastic, however, for couples forced to dirty talk from a distance (because of jobs or school), it can be a little awkward at first.
So today we’re going to give you some tips on how to sexy talk on the phone.
1. Have fun with it (aka – laugh at yourself)
You might feel a little ridiculous at times, but that’s normal. The goal here is to keep the romance alive. The purpose isn’t always to …”finish”, but more to get your part fantasizing about you as much as possible when they can’t be with you.
Relax, have a drink, get comfortable, and have fun!
2. Be prepared
Like anything, the more you do it and the more prepared you are, the easier it will be.
There are plenty of dirty talk examples on this site (not to mention the must-read Dirty Talk Handbook). Write a few down if you want (no one will see you!), rehearse a little, and don’t forget; asking questions is a great way to take the heat off yourself.
Be confident with what you are saying, and say it with conviction.
People love to hear that they are unique or special. So when you are telling your lover about what you love about them, say it and sound excited. Even exaggerate a little “You have the nicest X I have ever seen!”.
Your voice will make the dirty talk. Don’t strain to sound sexy, just try to really believe what you are saying. If you sound honest, it will be incredibly hot.
Just the fact you have someone to talk sexy on the phone with is awesome and you are lucky. Some people would kill to have that much trust with someone from the opposite sex. So embrace it.
If you make a mistake, big whoop. Chances are your partner is just as nervous or self-conscious as you are.
That’s it for today. Now go have some fun!
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