Maybe you have a hot date tonight…
Maybe you’re having an online conversation that just took a sexy turn…
Whatever it is, you need to get good at talking dirty fast!
The problem is, when it comes to dirty talk the only thing that comes to your mind are completely over-the-top cliches that even just thinking about are make you embarrassed.
So what do you do?
Well because you ARE in a rush, I will get straight to the point.
That’s it, the answer to all your dirty talk problems.
Oops. Let me quickly explain…
Ask Sexy Questions
If you are EVER struggling with what to say, or your mind goes blank in the middle of a red-hot texting conversation, fire off a sexy question.
The beauty of this strategy is:
- it takes the pressure off of you to be creative and sexy on the spot
- it allows the other person to use their imagination, so if they initiated the dirty talk they’ll be having a blast answering you
- their answers give you dirty talk ammo. So once they tell you their fantasies, you will learn how to talk dirty to them after
It really is amazing how a quick question can really get the party started. Simple questions such as “What’s the sexiest date you can think of”, or for those who really want to get into it “What’s your favorite position/place to have sex” will start a chain of exciting conversational events that can keep going and going until you want it to stop.
A conversation can usually go something like this:
What’s your favorite position?
Mmm, me too! Why do you like it?
Because of the view, it’s sooo hott! You?
I feel so sexy and in control. Where’s the craziest place you’ve done it?
In my backyard. But I’ve always wanted to do it on the beach
Well maybe if you’re lucky it might happen. But what will you do for me?
And as you can imagine, this can keep going and going and keep getting hotter. Also, the person asking the questions revealed a fantasy of the other person (sex on the beach) which they can explore at a later time…
The trick to dirty talk is not getting too wild too soon. You must be yourself. So if you just memorize some freak-deaky lines that don’t fit your personality, it’s not going to come across sexy and honest.
Think of a couple questions that you feel comfortable with and go from there.
Hopefully this gives you some idea of how sexy it can be just to ask questions (and how quickly it can effect your sex life).
If you have any sexy questions you can think of to ask your lover during sex, over the phone, on text messages, please comment below to share with other readers.
So that’s it for today! Thanks for reading, and as always, stay sexy!