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Dirty talk is sexy right, so can there really be such a thing as too much dirty talk?
Yes. There can, and there is.
Nothing can kill a mood faster than someone who talks …and talks …and talks.
You might been trying to step up your dirty talk game recently and are having fun with it, your partner too …you think. But are you actually doing more harm than good?
Today I want to remind you that dirty talk is NOT just about, well, talking.
In fact sometimes saying less has a much stronger effect!
The whole point of this website is to give you the information you need so you can have more fun in your relationships. And even though on this site I offer plenty of examples of what to say, I don’t really address what NOT to say.
The key is for you to learn how to gauge the situation.
If you notice you are the one doing all the talking and your partner isn’t reciprocating, they either might not know what to say back (which is common) OR they might not really be into having a dialogue at that moment.
Often times in relationships one person talks more and the other likes to listen more, which is fine. Don’t worry it has to be even ALL the time. However you need to learn to read body language and decipher whether or not what you are doing is effective.
Are they showing signs that they like it, that it’s turning them on?
Are they giving you queues they want you to keep talking?
Dirty talk is like cooking, it works best when you turn up the heat, but if you turn up the heat too much you can ruin a good thing.
Another thing to keep in mind is the degree of your dirty talk. Remember that dirty talk doesn’t always mean naughty words …it’s about timing, delivery, and the meaning behind the words. I’ll talk more in-depth about that soon. For now just remember that talking dirty to your partner can be incredibly exciting but too much can have the reverse effect.
That’s it for today, come back soon for more dirty talk tips.