1. Don’t converse
He wants to think he’s pleasuring you at ALL times in the bedroom …so if you are thinking AND talking about the day while he’s doing his thang, you’ll CRUSH his ego.
BE AWARE of this, and always use body language/dirty talk to keep his mojo working hard to please YOU.
Unless of course he likes it…
But most guys don’t.
2. Don’t try something TOTALLY different from YOUR personality
Dirty talk included, take it easy at first.
But I’m talking more dramatic things here. I received an email from a woman who was very shy but eager to please …and while in the act with her boyfriend she slapped him hard in the face and said ‘C’mon, give it to me!’!!! She laughed about it later but said his jaw dropped and he completely froze for about 10 seconds.
The point is, BE CAREFUL when trying new things …sure it depends who you’re with, but consider this a stern reminder!
Baby steps.
Build up your confidence and repertoire. The path to a complete sexy goddess is a long one.
3. Don’t avoid eye contact
Just because you can’t have a regular conversation during sex DOESN’T mean you should just lay there avoiding eye contact.
As mentioned earlier, a guy wants to think he’s giving you the best sex you’ve EVER had (it’s an ego thing)… and if you just laying there not acknowledging him, he’s going to think:
I might be exaggerating a little, but eye contact is a HUGE factor in sex for men, and if you avoid it, he’ll assume you’re thinking about someone else.
…If that’s the case, switch to doggy-style!
A guys opinion.
Evan Michaels